I'm almost too tired to even begin my story, but the real hurt is after 17 years of marriage, 3 children later, I have no husband-- just an overgrown, uninvolved extra bad 'kid' in my house. I hurt losing what I thought I used to have as a man, husband, & father. He even has his own "room". He eats, goes to his room, watches TV, goes to sleep, while I carry on...w/ 3 busy kids, homework, housework, everything. If I dare say anything, I'm "picking a fight". I once (when I was obviously young & VERY unaware), thought I was the center of his universe.... Now I'm the mother he hates. Too many other details, too tired to keep this up.