Married My First Girl Friend And Have Been Married Now For 12 Years!
I fell in love
with my very first girl friend and we have been married for 12 years and been together for 15 years. I need help and advice. We have 3 beautiful children. Last week I caught my wife cheating with a friend in our own house @ 1am in the morning. She told me she had to go downstairs to grab something so I got worried and went down to check on her. Caught them in the kitchen pulling their pants up. She ran after me and begged me not to leave. She has been my only love and I never even kissed another girl before. The next day she wanted to be admitted to the hospital which I did and took her. 48 hours later she has been released under her parents custody and has been ordered to not make any decisions for 6 months and that needs to live with her parents. They knew I would be so upset so they called the cops to come to house to convince me I need to admit myself to the hospital. I agreed and stayed for 72 hours. Now I have been out and now my in laws say they have custody of my children too. so heart broken my feelings are numb that I couldn't bare living by myself that I asked the in laws if I could also stay with them so I can be with my family and not to be alone. They agreed as long as I follow some guidelines that me and wife can date but wife needs to sleep in parents room. And respect that my wife cannot make any decisions as to stay or go till the 6 months are up. My wife does tell me she wants to stay and work things out. We been talking but im stuck..... Having trust issues but I am not allowed to get close. Called every counselor in town and they are all booked. I need someone I can talk to cause the last thing I want is to build walls up which is what caused our issues in the first place. Any recommendation on how I must coop! Help!