A Womans Perspetive From A Males Point Of View.

When a man,male, gentlemen approaches a woman,lady,female in the hopes of performing sex he sometimes says, "Let's have sex baby"?! The female gets upset because the male reffered to this notion as "sex" and the female responds. "We're not going to have sex"! Or "We don't have sex, we make love" ! The male is subconsciously shot down from the woman because of his light handed refferal to the act or making love but he reffered to it as having "Sex". But actually when a male says or uses the word sex most of the time his usage of the word "sex" has the same meaning as the words or expression,"making love". He uses these words for several reasons instead of "making love" because he is a male and his ego is engaged in this form of conversation. And he is engaged in his head of being the aggressor or initiator in the act of making love to the lady he cares about. Even if the feelings are only on an emmotional level that only goes so far on a subonscious bases there are feelings and emmotions tied into this form of getting together with a woman. Wether it's with his wife,girlfriend or a booty-call. There is still emmotions still tied in to a level or degree.
When a man has sex with a woman and he enjoys having sex with that woman or women thee male from teen years to adulthood does study and tries to learn more ways or technics for becoming better at what he likes to do. He wants to become better and becoming better is a part of his" ID". Which is ofcourse consists of his ego and super-ego. Mostly of his super-ego part of his ID. So as he becomes better and learns more his "ID" becomes larger and stronger,..less fragile. And is ofcourse more difficult to damage on a subconscious and sometimes conscious level. So ladies when a man suggests to having sex or making love,..they are one in the same meaning. Last mention before I end below I will list some male female translations to help understand the translation or glossory. Please pardon the fulgarrity. LOL

male female
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SEX- LOVE
**** - SEX
INTERCOURSE- LOVE MAKING
*******- EMOTIONAL SEX(HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE ME?)
SUCK- HOW DEEP IS YOUR LOVE FOR ME?
*******- I AM AT YOUR MERCY!
ANAL- DO YOU TRUST ME TO BE AT MY MERCY?
BREASTFEEDING- I HAVE A NEED FOR YOU AND I TO CONNECT ON A PRIMAL AND DEEPLY EMOTIONAL LEVEL
Damian2k2000 Damian2k2000
36-40, M
1 Response Nov 29, 2012

Brilliant! More please!