Mature Swingers

That's the problem, older folks are basically too conservative to enjoy the benefits of swinging.....are you one of these couples? If so drop me a line so we can share our plans
disneyboy692 disneyboy692
70+
6 Responses May 19, 2012

Me and my wife are 64 and I guess it is too late to start in the lifestyle for us. I have told her I would not mind her getting som satisfaction that I am not able to give her, but she is not interested, and I guess finding the right man in our age would be difficult. But we still enjoy and love each other. That is the most important.

I have read that some of the retirement places in Florida get pretty sexual with older folks being horny and no worries of pregnancy any more. Some maturity in the thoughts about partners with other people that it can get quite hot. I couldn't have done it when I was young macho and jealous. Now I realize the body is for fun and so is hers. I don't need to impose my limits on her. Get it. I think she could handle a ******** and enjoy it. At least a *********.

we had the same problem but we joined swingers life style and met some great people our age have had some great fun we are in our 50's and in a very!!!!! conservative state

We are talking about trying the 'lifestyle' and we are classified as older people - 57 and 61. I'm not sure that conservative leanings are the reason so many of our generation hesitate to go for it. I remember that the generation that preceded us and raised us had views that may have influenced us to be less flamboyant about our sex lives. I grew up in a household in which any reference to sex wasn't condoned and I had a hard time throwing off that attitude and being able to relax and enjoy sex. I have had a tough time adjusting to sex as a permissible and recreational indulgence especially with the idea that my wife could enjoy another man. My wife has been thinking this idea through and I sincerely hope she gives it the OK so that we can indulge.

Not all older folks are too conservative to enjoy swinging.

Just like young kids, not fully realizing the joys that experience brings. It is not just about the sex but the seduction.