How Did It Happen

I wasn't looking for it.  It just happened, and I'm not even sure when it happened.  I never understood affairs or why people had them.  I understand now.  I have many rules I have set in place to protect myself in relationships of all kind.  But the walls are coming down in this one. 

 

UPDATE:  

It was/is an emotional affair only.  I told my husband.  I hate liars.  I couldn't live with myself.  His answer, "Just don't give him what's mine, and we'll be okay."    Um...????   Really?  *sigh*

ChristineJones ChristineJones
31-35, F
7 Responses Feb 8, 2010

Thanks lost. I mean...wth? right? So...don't sleep with him and we're good? WTH did that mean? *sigh*

ouch. Sorry he dosen't feel your heart should be his.

Yours is a hard road CJ... I expect that it's harder than most. Everyone lies... you just have to decide what you are going to lie about and accept it.<br />
That is a normal human action.

Thanks kitten. *hugs*

Kiko...we do have kids and it's complicated<br />
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Emo: thanks hon! *hugs*

Thanks aces. I understand what you are saying

Rules are made to be broken, old law of nature. Also, Cupid has no rules and shout the arrow straight for your heart. What you have to understand is whether you want a short term relation, or long term. There are rules of engagement for affairs, so know the first one, discreet. Without that word, forget the affair, or be prepared to lie like a dog.