I Miss Being Single

I have been married since April 08. I married a man who is a hardworker, and very intelligent. However, he has no "class". He can be very crude, and selfish. I have examples every day of this type of behavior.

I truly miss being Single. I don't mean for dating. I mean, I miss my time being my own. I am sick of answering to this man. I have to account for every mintue, and I have to be tied to his hip while at home. I wish I could get out of this gracefully, but his biggest fear is that I will leave him (like all his past wives/girlfriends because he is so difficult), so I do have a certain level of responsibility and guilt.

rachel717 rachel717 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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After viewing your profile, married2ahottie, I now understand your post. You are perhaps, as low-class and crude as my husband.

Have you ever heard of people in this world who present a false persona? He lied through the courtship. Believe me, I am an intelligent person, but he is a master manipulator and liar. I found this out AFTER the marriage, and everyone who knows him says the same thing.

I am far from impulsive and thoughtless. That post was a little harsh in my opinion, implying that I am a twit.

hi ya hun, wel i ant bin marryed yet but i thought i'd still try an help.

I was wondering have you tryed to speak to him about the way that he is been and that you need your own space at times?

ive been with my boyfriend for a few years an i find speaking (to them like childern)lol

an just telling them how it makes you feel, an gentaly tell him......if it dont stop, then you will have to leave because you just cant take it.

Compermize is great for a realationship i find.

hope i helpped a tiny bit xxx