I Miss Him So MuchMy husband and I are going through a divorce right now, but I miss him so much. I smell him in our home, in our room, everywhere. When I saw him the other day all I wanted to do was cry, but crying does not help. Im trying to move on because it looks like he has also, but when you love someone so much how do you just move on? He told me that once reality sets in I will be able to move on also...reality has hit me, but I still have not been able to get over him. He is my kryptonite...even now if he walked in the door and told me he loved me I would sell my soul to be back with him. I know that isnt healthy, but I love him. I miss him so much sometimes it is hard to breath. He says he loves me, loved me, is still inlove with me...if this is true then why not come back to me? I wish I can be as strong. I sometimes think maybe the pain wouldnt be this bad if I was the one who initiated the divorce? I do not know, but I do know that I miss him, I still love him, and I want him back so much! I have been praying like crazy...asking God to help him because he is lost as am I, when he and I got married it was always us against the world until we moved to the same state as his family...Im so confused...how do you go from loving someone so much to completely cutting them out of your life? I wish I could be just as cold as him. I love my kids and everytime I look at them I see him. It hurts...it feels like this is slowly killing me. I go through bursts of anger and saddness, then hope and love for him...I say hope because there is still a small part of me that says he still loves you and will come back to you. My friends and family are angry at him, they say he will regret it one day and that hurts me like hell. Im not a perfect wife, but I do not know what else to do for him. I want my family back together again! At times Im angry because I cannot believe that he is hurting me and my sons for his own selfish reasons...I know I need to be strong for my sons.
I believe in God, but I also believe in Shamanism. My mom took me to see a Shaman about my situation and I was told...you and him are meant to be, there is gonna be a time in your life where you two will be apart for awhile, but you guys will always come back to each other, after that time apart your marriage will be stronger and better...that is why i have this small hope. Maybe Im stupid for hoping and I need to just get over him.