hi, my names mellissa and im 20 years old. my boyfriend and i met in september of 2010. when we were first hanging out, we partied alot and all we did was hang out with friends and get drunk. then we ended up falling in love, and i started caring about what happens to him more and more. so we decided no more drinking and everything was perfect. he was in jail from feb 2010 to august 2010 for a felony dui he got when he was 17, hes 19 now. in december he was driving home from probation ( hes not supposed to be driving, he has a suspended license ) and a cop tried to pull him over, well he ended up bailing the car on a side street and running threw the woods. then he called me and i had a friend go pick him up. from that point on i started preparing myself for him to go to jail. he ended up getting arrested on january 3 2011 just 2 days after my birthday. its been really hard on me. im going to wait for him, but he writes to me and tells me how all the guys in jail are telling him how all girls are hoes and its really getting to his head. i love him with all my heart, and its so hard to see him in this situation. all i can do is tell him how much i love him and care about him. he doesn't know how long he will be in jail yet, but he has an 18 month suspended sentence. its going to kill me if he gets 18 months, but he will be eligible for parole after 9 months. i hope to god hes ok in there, i haven't been able to visit him yet, because i dont have an id, and none of his family has gone to visit him either. im just so sad and i miss him. this is by far one of the hardest things ive ever had to deal with. i would really just love another girl to talk to about this.