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I Can't Stand People Judging. Sometimes Its Good Just To Keep Things To Yourself.

Today was a good day I was able to get up and go out with my homegirls for a brunch. Everything was cool until one of my friends that was the only one who knew about the situation with my Hubby asked me when am I gonna have kids and I told her I wasn't ready then her and my other friend that doesn't know anything kept going back and forth with the question then they would look at me and look at each other and start laughing now I like a good laugh but I'm not stupid and then my other friend that doesn't know came out her kitchen and was like what's so funny. Both of them just kept laughing and said nothing we are going to go outside and talk so the both of them went. Came back a few minutes later and my friend asked again what was so funny and they played it off. Now I can read people so I already knew and didn't find anything funny. Now how do you tell somebody else business thats not your place to tell and its not your place to judge what I do with my life cause its my business. I don't go around telling your business. People are so quick to worry about everyone else relationship but their own and they got their own damn problems. Ladies please be careful who you tell ya business to its better to to just keep it to to yourself and pray. I just had to vent I just know I can't hang out with that person anymore the Hubby was upset cause I was upset but he told me not to sweat it and made me smile but I still had to vent. I know he's a wonderful man I don't have anything to prove to anybody and neither does he everybody makes mistakes and ain't nobody perfect or God so I don't like that they judge him because of the situation but its cool they can talk and laugh now we will have the last laugh as Hubby says. I hope you ladies have a wonderful night keep us in your prayers and I will continue praying for you guys . Lata God Bless.
Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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Thank you summah that is true I don't have to prove anything to to anybody and he is the best thing that happened to me he made me change my ways and he is totally amazing man and I'm gonna stick by his side true love is worth the fight.

Thank you summah that is true I don't have to prove anything to to anybody and he is the best thing that happened to me he made me change my ways and he is totally amazing man and I'm gonna stick by his side true love is worth the fight.

People are always going 2 judge others, always going 2 judge you, & your situation and the truth is it HURTS. im past that now i ignore what others say or do! hes my man i kno him best, people don't realise how small words can HURT so big, how it cuts like a knife & ur always going 2 have the small few people who will bring you & him both down but follow your own heart, be with him if its what you want, you make the decisions in Your life, keep ur head up and don't let anyone tell u different! prove nothing 2 no-one as long as u kno yourself thats all that needs proved! take care & stay strong <3

People are always going 2 judge others, always going 2 judge you, & your situation and the truth is it HURTS. im past that now i ignore what others say or do! hes my man i kno him best, people don't realise how small words can HURT so big, how it cuts like a knife & ur always going 2 have the small few people who will bring you & him both down but follow your own heart, be with him if its what you want, you make the decisions in Your life, keep ur head up and don't let anyone tell u different! prove nothing 2 no-one as long as u kno yourself thats all that needs proved! take care & stay strong <3

Thanks yes I will. You keep your head up too. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Take care.