Needs Help Dealing With His Absence</3 (please comment)

Hey I am Rachal.........My boyfriend went to jail last Friday for hit and run..open container and driving without any papers..he got five years probation and 60 hours of community service...we talked and he promised hed never go away again.....I should have known that that wouldnt mean much..since he has been in and out of jail since he was 16..hes 22 now...well yesterday he got aressted AGAIN for open container once more and less then an ounce of maryjane..i am freakin out. His court date is monday and his mother told me that the worst he would have to spend is 2 yearsss ...i am lost and need as much people who understand to try to help me through this..cause all my friends can say is let him go...but i cant i love him. I have known him for 9 months and we have been dateing for 1...but i have loved him since i met him 10 months ago...he hadnt been in jail for almost a year..and its like time is not on our side. Im at loss for words and just dont know what to do at this point....HELP!
RachalKristine RachalKristine
18-21, F
5 Responses Sep 15, 2012

if you're strong,
and the love is there,
everything will be fine.
i find it hard going through the days thinking of when he'll be out and it seriously makes them go by much long, you gotta keep yourself busy.
if it's suppose to be you guys will make it through :)

Sweetie if you love him wait. My man has been in prison for 4 years and has 3-10 more to go based on if he is released at his half way mark for good behavior. Its hard but once he is in there you will know if what you have is real love. being separated by bars and time is one of the hardest tests a relationship can go through. Ill keep you in my thoughts and I hope things work out in your favor!

We have really similar stories! I know it's hard especially when all your friends say to leave him but it's your life not theirs!

if u love him n u think hes worth waiting for do it its not easy im not gonna lie my boyfriend has been locked up for 4 years but if u truly love him u can do it find that one friend that nomatter what u can lean on thats what helps me :-)

if u love him n u think hes worth waiting for do it its not easy im not gonna lie my boyfriend has been locked up for 4 years but if u truly love him u can do it find that one friend that nomatter what u can lean on thats what helps me :-)