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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Is In Jail

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By: blessed52
Written on January 31st, 2013
My fiancé gets out in 5 days. I'm excited but scared at the same time. I found out this weekend from his twin he was doing meth about a month before he went to jail. I ask him about it when he called on Tuesday and he said he had and he didn't want to talk about the past anymore, that he was coming out a different person. how can I believe that? I've heard it so many times. I've stayed through so many lies and its like every time I think I know everything something else comes up. its really scary. I'm so torn. I need advice.. do I keep giving chances.. I know he loves me i just really cant deal with this jail **** anymore or drugs. i just cant. i don't know what to do :( i love him with all my heart and i want to see him get his life straight.. i know he just needs someone to be there to keep pushing and he needs to have someone to change for.. but am i that person? ugh :( i just wanna cry
By: blessed52
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • hayyboo1994
    hayyboo1994

    no one can change for another person. it might help them but they have to change because they want to from the heart. you'll be able to tell if they just say they are going to change by their actions. see what he does when he gets out. of he goes back to the same thing, drop him as hard as it may be. I told mine that if he went back again, I would no longer be there for him.

    Feb 2
    1 like
  • ashleerox
    ashleerox

    You guys are def in a tough spot but still quite young..changes are always possible..
    it is nice you are supportive to the best of your ability BUT I believe he needs to get clean for himself

    Feb 1
    3 likes