Life Just Doesn't Get Any Easier

I can't help but feel so pessimisstic about the whole situation. He is getting charged with another felony dui and he could be in there for years. I spoke with a bunch of lawyers and they all said the same. He is my 1st Love, I've never felt anything like it before. It's so surreal. And it get taken from me. We write everyday and talk everyday. I'm going near bankrupt because of the phone calls but I can't help it. I can't go a day without hearing his voice. When he was out here we were always together 24 7 and to be completely without him is a totally new experience.

The separation has strengthened our love for eachother. And we now know to never take a moment together for granted. All the petty fights we had back then seems so pointless now. WHen we'd give anything to just share 5 minutes of alone time without glass between us.

I never knew there were groups like this, I get a little emotional reading the other stories and it feels like I wrote them myself. all the things you girls say you go through is so real, and I feel exactly where you're coming from. I wanna say its all gonna be fine but no day is easier than the last.

If it helps, I found a quote that is pretty inspirational for this situation.

"Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will."


theSweetestSin theSweetestSin
22-25, F
6 Responses Jan 6, 2009

i cant believe i actually found this site.. im going through the same stuff with my boyfriend in jail..we'll be together 2 years in april..its hard im not dealin to good with it either girl

I think the majority of us here are already going through a hard enough time, without having to hear negative stuff from people. You don't have any room to judge, and you obviously don't know her boyfriend personally. Here I think we can come here for support from those who have been through similar situations. Honestly, if you don't have something positive to say, why say it at all?<br />
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On a side note... Well, not really a side note. My father is an alcoholic. He was never able to recover, and has spent his entire life(and mine) in and out of jail/prison. My Stepdad is an alcoholic also, and managed to recover. He has kept his life straight since. <br />
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Each situation is different. Please, be supportive, no matter what you're feeling. Don't use this site to come and take it out on others.

The best thing you can do for yourself is pray that you can move on. Trust me, it won't get better and his drinking will destroy your relationship.

I absolutely love that quote. I'm going to write it in my next letter. I know what you mean when you get emotional reading others stories, I get the same way. It makes it easier though, knowing there are other girls out there going through similar experiences. It seems the only ones who understand it are the ones who have gone through it.

I love the's true<br />
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Hugs x

I feel for you. Don't let the loneliness consume you.