The Guy I Love Just Got Locked Up.
So I've been on and off with this guy for 3 years (it's very complicated), but we recently got into a fight and 4 days later after I haven't heard from him..... I read in the paper that he got locked up. He might be facing anywhere between 1-3 years.
I'm in college, and I am definitely focusing on school but I truly and deeply love him. I just heard from him on the phone to today and he seems like he is doing fine, but I'm wondering... how do you make a relationship last when the one you love is in jail? I know guys can't cheat on you (obviously) but do they change when they are in there? I'm worried that while he is in there he is going to change into some monster or something. I'm afraid that I am going to devote so much time to him and when he gets out, he will forget all about me.
Anyone who has had experience in this field, I would appreciate the support/advice.
Thanks so much.