Pregnant And Baby Father Passed Away

Hello,
I am so sorry for your loss. We seem to have something in common unfortunatly, I too was pregnant and due at the end of March, and my daughter's father, my love, passed away in November. The birth of our daughter without him there was so hard, and I see him in her everyday. I found it so hard to look at her without crying at first because all I saw was him, but one month in, I am starting to see her now. I am hoping that her father is with us every day.Was it the same for you? How do YOU deal with all of this?It doesn't seem fair does it... I too wish I could have just one more minute with him, so much I would want to say. Unfortunatly we have to hope they can hear us were they are now and one day we will meet again. I hope the birth of your son went well and that you are learning to cope, it takes time I think...knowing others are going threw the same thing makes me realise that if others can do it, then I too will have to learn to accept this fate and find the positive in every momment, I hope you can too.

Hello,

I just wanted to provide support for you. Yes. He IS with you at all times. He will guide you through this process like he never left. Remember, only his physical body has left, but his soul and heartare always with you! Just for you to say that you have to go on even without your love, already shows how courageous and strong you are. He is definitely a lovely and lucky man to have you. Your new bundle of joy will make you happy because I'm sure he'll highlight features of your love and express it the same. And I know that will push you through it, too. I hope that helps, and I hope your new baby is smiling at you everyday. I think he's already here in this world. So, also, congratulations! :D

First off I'm sorry about your lost I truly know how u feel. I just lost my soul mate on 1/5/13. Kingsley was my everything we was together for almost 4 years. It sounds like a small amount of time be we actually been through alot. We just had are second child on the 12/22/12 and are daughter just turned 1 2/3/13.
Kingsley loved his kids. For him to be 20 he did everything for them and even me. We had many ups and downs, but he was my everything. As well I could tell him just about anything. He's seen all of me, he was my right and left hand. I miss him so bad. All my daughter keeps saying is Da Da. I know she miss him. He was her best friend. Kingsley and Amelia (MelMel) had the best bond in the world. He only got to spend 15 days with his Jr. :( he was so excited I remember seeing his face. Writing that hurt because its sad to know your B didn't even get to see yawl son be born. That's so messed up. I know God is In control and has a purpose. And I plan to live for him until its time for judgement day. However I just really want Kingsley back. I even have Faith that Kingsley will come back before judgement day so we can spend one more day with one another. :( I miss him so much. Anytime you need to talk make sure u write me in my inbox. This something you don't want to go through alone. And I have a big support team. But sure enough everyone went back to their lives and I had to move on for my kids. But no one understands my pain. Kings was my world. All I wanted was for my family to do right by God and be happy. We are no saints but we loved God. I'm so heart broken .! Ugh this pain I just want it to go away. I feel like I'm my worst enemy. I hate being me. But trust me your son will make it better because he will be the highlight of your day. And I'm sure he will do many things to remind you of his dad. But it gets hard. But we can't give up.! Kids need us but trust me this **** is easier said than done. Everyday I think about giving up. But Kingsley would be disappointed in me because he loved his kids. And so do I. So we have to stay strong for them. I guess that's all we can do.! I can't believe this

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I'd take each day one at a time.

I can't begin to imagine how hard it must be for you, especially with a child on the way. Take comfort in knowing that your partner is still sort of living on through your child, that you both created together :) If you ever need to talk about this and you feel like it would be better to talk to a stranger then one of your friends, you can always talk to me :)

I only can imagine how hard it is for you! Its really heartbreaking!