Sometimes the Nights Are So Lonely

even though my g/f and i broke up almost 6 months ago...and...im with another girl....i miss my ex so much. everything reminds me of her. i cant go anywhere or do anything without thinking about her...


 


does ANYONE have a suggestion of what to do!?

Kalboy Kalboy
18-21, F
9 Responses Nov 6, 2006

I have only once been in a situation where thoughts of an ex were taking priority over a currernt girlfriend.. I regrettee feeling that way. If I'd beem more aware, I'd have seen the great things about the current girlfriend

Didn't plan on it myself. She loves me...so she says...can't buy it (with my head), my heart however.
She needs a break...translated means...
It doesn't matter about the meaning. The end result is clear...
I broke it off...made it official. Thought that that was what she wanted all along.
Moving on?
Now there is the challenge.
I feel for you buddy. I'm right there with ya.

I am currently going through the same situation, I had a girlfriend that i loved with all my heart and she left me, i quickly tried filling the empty space with another girl. It just didnt do it. And you may find someone who you like that seems to meet your needs, but all i can say is: if you meet someone else that seems to fill your empty space for a time, think a little before you add someone else into the equation, who knows you might get lucky. But if you dont the feeling of love might not be mutual, and itll really hurt them. Be sure to let them know you just got out of a serious relationship. Love doesnt easily adjust, and more often than not, they will understand.

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.

others calling you selfish is not particularly helpful. I recommend you meeting and talking with your ex. Although your desire may be to be back with her, that apparently is not what she wishes and it may be easier for you accept that if you have open honest quite conversation with her. It has helped me. Though I still think very fondly of my ex-girl, since our talk my feelings and thoughts toward her are less intense and I am better able to deal with what she wishes.

That's selfish and immature of you to get involved with someone when you feel this way.

It's difficult sometimes to move on without having someone else there to comfort you, but it is selfish. Take it from me. I wasn't over my ex, and i got involved with another girl, and she completely fell in love with me. We ended up having a 4 year relationship, and I loved her deeply, but I just was never in love with her. She never knew, but I ended up hurting her a lot. Just take your time, which is really hard to do when you're at that age, or at any age for that matter, but sometimes you just have to deal with the brunt of the pain to get over it. I'm in a situation right now where I don't know if I'll ever fully recover, but I'm going to busy myself and try as hard as humanly possible - and absolutely stay single. Good luck!

first off you shouldn't be with a girl if you still care about an ex..<br />
i hope its not a serious relationship because she's probably hurting because of you..<br />
my best friend is going through this because her boyfriend is still in love with his ex..<br />
<br />
all the best..

I understand. I thought about my high school sweetheart for years. Finally, I just had to let it go and move on. That's when I met my husband. <br />
<br />
Hang in there...it will get better.