Love Hurts

My girlfriend dumped me after 6 months. She treated me badly when i was with her but i loved her dearly. 2 months has passed, she dosent talk to me, she says she wants to be friends but how can you be friends with someone you wont talk to?? Now im single and depressed, im not good at being single, i dont like sleeping around and ive had enough of drinking every wk end and being a wreckhead. I desperately want to leave this lifestyle behind and settle down with the girl i love but she has gone and i have nothing left now. I dont have feelings for any other girls, i truly believe she was "the one" and i treated her with respect and honesty. Also she said she knows deep down she is making a huge mistake but then carried on and made it anyway?? i dont understand why someone would do that it seems i have to be punished and thats my fate. Now im just empty and alone, i want to be in love again but i dont think i ever will again, i hate this life i lead, i know i shouldnt let one girl ruin my outlook on life but how can i help it when she meant so much to me? She really had no reason to dump me its all ****** up. Why are some women so cruel? 
justaboi justaboi
26-30, M
2 Responses Jun 21, 2007

I totally feel your pain, for I am in the same place right now. Except that she does call me all the time. We talk as much now as when we were together so to me it really feels like we are together. She says that she just wants to be friends with me. I don't know if I can do it or not. it has been 4 months now and she is considering dating someone else now, and she tells me about this new guy, and then gets mad at me when I try to change the subject away from him. I try to explain to her that it is just not something that I can hear right now because I still love her so much, and that to hear such things is just a dagger in my heart. I think that you are better off not being friends with her because it is to hard to move on when she is always right there. I hope that things get better for you.

When you find "the one" she will love you and respect you. One day you will look back on this relationship and realize that it was not true love at all. Just hold on, and know that one day the real thing will come; you will find someone who cares for you, is supportive and treats you kindly.