After 15 Years; I Still Miss Her... So Much

We dated in college & we had that type of relationship that was supposed to last for life.  After graduation; she couldn't handle our long distance relationship & she started cheating on me.

To cut the story short; we both took our own ways but we stayed in touch for the past 15 years.

I've been happily married for 7 years now but still I have some special feelings for my ex.  I think the love I had for her is still alive.


CoolTool CoolTool
1 Response Aug 5, 2009

Well, your story is very much like mine, EXCEPT, as far as I know, she never cheated on me. However, she left me and made me feel like I was nothing but a summer time rebound. I did everything right, was chivalrous, and even paid for everything, opened her doors, and treated her like a goddess. (In my opinion, a GOOD woman deserves that!) Well, she left me, said she never loved me, got knocked up and married another man, even through all that craziness, I still love her and we havent talked in 17 years, so I definitely can feel your pain. Even though, we haven't spoke, I do love her, but I have to accept that if she is happy without me, then I want her to remain that way.