Reconnected With My First Love After 22 Yearshere is my story, the short version
I dated FL throughout high school and college. She was a few years younger than me. She treated me great and was devoted to me. I wasn't true to her and cheated on her on several occasions. Eventually, in 1987, she left me for good. I met my wife to be later that year and vowed to always be true to her. We were married in 1989. Always thought about my FL but never heard from her again.
After 20 years of marriage, and our son went off to college, my wife decided she didn't want to be married to me anymore. Last December I googled my FL's name. She was not on Face-book. I found her address through a pay site. I sent her a short note giving her my email address. 3 days later she responded and gave me her cell phone number. We texted for about a week, then she told me she had been at my wedding, outside, in her car. I asked if I could call and she agreed.
She's in an abusive and unhappy marriage, but almost 1000 miles away. We're in contact on a regular basis. I've separated from my wife and filed from divorce. I'm not expecting my FL to end her marriage and marry me, but we are close friends.
That connection we had many years ago came right back. She forgave me for my screw ups and accepts me now.
We've met a couple of times, but not had a physical relationship, just friendly stuff. When we talk, we discuss everything. She's so easy to talk with. I love her more now than ever.
I don't know what the future holds, but our reconnection has been good for both of us. We are best friends today. I'm taking things one day at a time.
we remain in touch we just still can't be together because of her husband and kids. i will forever be in love with her and wait for her. I tell others I love them, but I can't even make love to another woman. I'm lonely for her but blame it on the girl I date.
tazintrouble 46-50, M 3 Responses 0 Dec 20, 2010