okay. here is my story i really need to splurge right now to some one.. because im about to burst.. Allright i have been with this guy for 2 years now and at first things were going good and now i just am like falliing out of love with him.. its soo confusing idk what to do.. like i cant stand the things he does or says i just cant tell him it. and i dont know how to.. ahh. its drivin me nuts.. im only 17 years old and i got my self in love by mistake.. like i have only had 2 people who i have truly cared about a one of them is him and the other one is a guy i was with in highschool. and like he calls me all the time now and i think that might be why i dont want to be with Anthony (the guy im with now) ... i mean idk. like i am honest with him but not about this.. can some one please talk to me about this?. it would be awsome.. and thanks for taking ur time and reading my entry.. right now i feel like ****** **** and dont know what to doooooo.
mariechels08 mariechels08
18-21, F
3 Responses Jul 19, 2007

What you're describing is called "buh-bye time". When you get to the point where everything someone does - down to the way they inhale & exhale makes your skin crawl- you're done. I know it's really unpleasant to do but trust me - I've been there too many times to count - you need to tell him straight up that you don't want to be with him anymore. He won't be happy he'll want to know why bla bla bla. Be as kind as possible but straightforward. If you don't know what to say, tell him you don't know why-and you wish it didn't happen, but it did. Feeling sorry for him won't do anything but hurt you both even more. Good luck and be strong.

17? Kick em to the curb to young to be wrapped up in that type of ****

I'm not really sure how to help. The best advice I can give is just be honest with him. I know it's easier said then done. Try to look at it this way, the longer you wait the harder it will be. And don't feel bad about it. You really can't help the way you feel about someone. I hope that helps.:)