Instead of feeling mad at them for leaving you with everything kids, house and life remember they had a commitment to fulfill and are doing a wonderful job. Faith can get you thru anything. You don't have to see or touch your husband to know how much you care for one another. Our deployment is in God's hands just like everything else. Distance or no communication can be defeated by true love! I have a new son and is this is our second deployment. It's hard but it's harder for them.