HELP! My Man Is Leaving Again.

MY BOYFRIEND AND FIANCEE OF 1 YR IS LEAVING FOR AFGHANISTAN IN NOVEMBER. WE MET ABOUT 2 MONTHS BEFORE HE LEFT THE FIRST TIME BUT DIDNT START DATING UNTIL HE CAME HOME. I MISSED HIM SO MUCH THE FIRST TIME AND SO MANY THINGS HAVE CHANGED IN THE RELATIONSHIP NOW. I HAVENT TOLD HIM THAT IM PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD YET. AND IM SO SCARED BECAUSE HE WONT BE HERE WITH ME WHEN I HAVE IT AND I DONT WANT HIM TO FEEL BAD ABOUT LEAVING ME HERE. I MISS HIM ALREADY AND HE ISNT EVEN GONE. WHAT IS A GIRL TO DO?
ILUVMYSOLDIER07 ILUVMYSOLDIER07
18-21, F
2 Responses Jun 3, 2007

I know what you feel like honey. I am in the same sitey. Just pray and Pray and just in God and love the man no stop like if to was your last day.

I'm sure you have told your man about the baby by now. I know how hard it is to tell them something so big knowing that they are leaving i had to go through that with my hubby's first deployment. I found that telling him ment that we could share as much as possible before he left. Then i would say send him copies of any ultrasound you get done, most dr will give two copies if they know that your man is active duty. Make him apart of the whole thing as much as you can i took a new pic every month and sent it with him so that he could see how i and our baby grew. this isn't the most easy way to go through this but it will help alittle.<br />
You may even get married before he leaves. That way the baby will have fell medical and you will to. I know that isn't a reason to be married although you are planning to marry any way. Also god forbid if anything happens you both will be taken care of. (sorry if i stepped on toes with that!)<br />
Take care of you and the little one...