What Now

My beautiful mother died 2 days ago. I am extermly sad, and everyone keeps saying I need to be strong. I am tired of being strong I want to weep and sob because she desirves my tears. I loved her so, she was my friend and I called her 2 or 3 times a day. She was a gentle soul always kind and up lifting. She loved her family so much. How will I ever get over this.
whistlebinky whistlebinky
46-50, F
2 Responses Jun 11, 2007

Of course you need to let your emotions flow. Crying is normal and healthy. One thing that someone told me when my mother died is to try to remember the good memories. It will help you during this difficult time even though you feel as though you've lost the legs beneath you...Take care...

It is totally normal to cry, My Momma died 9 months ago and I still cry;not as much as first but, she was your Mom and there is no other bond closer than that. You will make it .... It felt like I wanted to just curl up in a ball and die myself. Time does make it a little more bearable. hang in there . If you ever need message me and would be glad to be an open ear .