You know, I am doing better than I had imagined I could. It helps that he and I can send email messages, and somehow it feels easier to keep busy with the time difference (I'm making dinner and he's just getting up).
I've also been giving myself a bit of break here and there: it's o.k. if I don't finish everything on my list every day.
I'm so glad you are giving yourself a break! That is the most important thing and I would agree the time difference helps me feel a little better, knowing when I make Sunday brunch(which was always our weekend routine) he has already had his (if MRE's count lol)
I'm doing well as well. I send him an email a day, letters several times a week, and care packages galore. Taking time out of my day to do something for him helps me stay connected, and knowing how much he appreciates it and recognizes what I do for him helps him feel like he is still a high priority in my life. I think though a part of me is staying so strong through all of this because a part of me is afraid of what's going to happen when he gets home. Do you ever worry about that too? - xoxo Rita