Kissing Changes

I have a very sexy  wife, great kids and few wants.  I am very lucky because ten years into my relationship we continue to have an active, satisifing sex life, and a desire for one another.  One of my regrets is that we have lost our passion for kissing.  In the early years we loved to kiss one another and constantly did so in public at home, sometimes sexually and sometimes out of love.  Now i feel like i kiss my wife like i do my children.  It is a sign of love but no longer of passion.  I have tried to talk about it and experiment but that heart thumping, passion and thrill seems to be missing.   

truecurious truecurious
36-40, M
2 Responses Feb 24, 2010

Also, don't be afraid to kiss in front of your children. It doesn't hurt for them to see that their parents really dig each other!

These things wax and wane in a long term relationship. Don't despair-- it can change again. My husband and I have been married almost 25 years, and I enjoy kissing him now more than ever. You need to just grab her unexpectedly sometime and give her a deep and long kiss. Out of the blue like this it is possible that the kiss might turn passionate for both of you.