Perhaps ..perhaps Not
Hmm not too sure about this ..while I dont see anything wrong at all with allowing a boy to tap into his feminine side ( most have one) I dont believe constructively feminizing a son is the answer to world peace. In fact it may just be the opposite.
Here in the west Feminizing our sons would be considered another Westernised "whim or luxury" one which other countries in the world will simply not follow. Men are tougher than women per sae for a reason.
And nature very rarely gets these things wrong.
If another Country / Countries attacked ours it would be their "Masculine Men" who would invade ours. Then capture us women along with our feminized sons & husbands. Men are tough for good reason.
They construct and build worlds, they go out and do the dirty horrible jobs that feminine women (and there are are many of us ) dont want to do.
psst ( my husband catches the spiders when he's at home)
They take risks and chances for the sakes of their loved ones that many women cant even bare thinking about. And last but not least when our boys become grown Men they love us because of our femininity simply put ...we are different to them. Just as we love them for being Men and are very much attracted to a Man's Masculinity too.
I have experienced the differences between raising a son and a daughter and know exactly what you mean. But I still believe nature know's best.
While I'm fortunate to be able to experience the mother & daughter bond. I value both my children's genders for their differences they will make to their world . I do feel sad for women who have no daughters and understand their frustrations.
But perhaps if more of these women encouraged their sons to be respectful & responsible Men ...while at the same time became Mentor's or special Guardians to the young girls ( and there are many of them ) in need of a Mom & female bonding. Then this might be more of a productive solution. Much more than encouraging the feminization of our Sons across the board.
Just a thought.. I know how tempting it is an idea. But I would need more convincing. And what will we do about our Mens unwanted Testosterone ..Medicate? this will create among many things a need for more test tube babies.
Men with nightly headaches & women will have to rely on S ex toys as standard almost because their husbands are busy having a manicure and then painting their nails..
Now come on... lollol that's not fair!
Mmmcherries 46-50, F 10 Responses 5 Sep 18, 2011