Why The Double Standard.It is interesting to me that there are some, who for some reason say they will not obey their husband or that it is somehow degrading. That they don't understand how anyone can give up control of their-selves and give their lives to some one else.
This is to those who ask this question: You obey the red lights and stop signs.
If you are standing somewhere and an officer tells you to move you obey. (giving up control of your movements)
If your employer (boss, which is a dutch derivative of master) tells you to be at work at a set time or to work late, you obey. (Giving up control of time that is yours)
If you are told to pay taxes, get a license, insurance, car tag, presription, permits, certain clothes for a job, not to have pets, Then you are giving up control of yourself and you life by Obeying!
You have no real control of the money you make cause you aren't even given a choice whether taxes are held out. How is that having control?
Either get a license, etc., etc., etc., or get punished. How is that having control? The idea of freedom is an illusion regardless how it is looked at. So why not commit to the one who has agreed to look after you and protect you?
Want to know just how much you control your own life?: try to tell your employer you will be there when you get ready or that you are not going to pay taxes get insurance or a license.