My husband and I have been going back and forth on his strong desire/demand for me to be submissive. I've tried but had been fighting him on this. Finally, he started to spank me three times a day followed by my giving oral sex to him on my knees. By establishing this routine, I was to learn that I had to obey him and see him as the authority by feeling submissive and humilility. As much as I hate to admit it, it did work. The first thing I thought of in the morning was my submissiveness and I was reminded of it throughout the day. After three days he saw me doing something he had forbid me to do and I got into a huge fight with him. After saying and doing all kinds of things and being completely disrespectful, I now realize it's important that I have these limits and learn to do as I'm told so there is harmony in our marriage. I also realize I admire him more when he is a strong man. So I've agreed to worship him and be obedient once and for all. I am completely determined to do this. This may sound stupid to many women, but when you give yourself completely like this to a man, you find you are rewarded with the greatest relationship and have a man who is protective, loving and takes care of you. I kept telling my husband I didn't agree because his needs came over mine and I would never be happy living to worship him. But I was wrong. It's very easy for women to get too caught up in this independant life and fighting the natural order of men being in charge. Men need to be respected and women need to be adored. My husband is so happy now. For the first time, I actually want to do this. If I disobey again, we start seven days of punishment in the same manner.