I was a virgin when I got married at 18. He was older and dashing! I love my husband very much and we have a wonderful relationship, he's a great father, etc. I just wish he had more "down there". Erect he's lucky to be 4 inches. It just doesn't do much for me, though he pleasures me in other ways. I'm not the cheating type but I do wonder what it would be like to be with a man who had more.