He's Just Not Nice To Me AnymoreMy husband isn't nice to me. He's not mean either. I just want to be treated nicely. Not ignored and not treated like I don't exist unless he wants to have sex. I don't want to be in a marriage that isn't a real partnership but here I am. Everytime I try to have a conversation with him, he assumes what I'm saying is wrong and disagrees or blatantly ignores me. When we get home from work every day, he asks me how my day was and then when I give him an honest answer that it was good or fine, he walks away while I'm speaking. If I had a bad day, he pretty much tells me to stop complaining or tells me why I'm wrong about whatever is bothering me.
I really want this marriage to work, but if I try to talk to him about the way I feel, I always end up feeling worse than before because of his reaction. He makes me feel guilty for saying anything about his behavior. I don't want to get divorced, it would be my second and one was bad enough, but I really feel like there has to be someone, somewhere, who would just be nice, kind and caring to me. Someone who would actually listen to me when I talk.
catwoman8 41-45 36 Responses 5 Jan 14, 2011