Ignored By Husband!

I have been married for a year now.....and I should say that the time I got married I thought I was the luckiest bride ever on earth. My husband was like head over heels in love with me, he would not be away from me even a minute. Then months passed, things changed, our opinions differred, loads of misunderstanding! Am right now 2 months preggo....and my husband isn't really happy about it, not because it was unplanned but thats a different story. He doubts my pregnancy(it was a splash pregnancy)and am totally shattered because of this! I know that by heart he is a nice guy, but don't know why all of a sudden he behaves like this. Well now am kinda away from him, not that we are seperated or anything, am just on a vacation now with my sister and he never bothers to call me! Am totally disappointed with the way he is acting now......but I do understand that he is stressed out a lot with his job right now but he doesn't understand that I need him at a time like this. He never shows interest in my pregnancy! I love him a lot and I don't want to divorce him!! please somebody help me!!!
paddie07 paddie07
3 Responses Apr 6, 2011

First of all i want to thank Alison for the post she made on how dr khakani helped her in bringing back her lover before christmas.At first when i saw the posting i was so happy and in the other hand so scared,That this might not be real, Then i decided to give it a try in which i contacted dr khakani and told him how my lover left me for another lady for the past 3years and i have been lonely without him,So i told him if he has helped anyone called Alison and he said yes, that was the lady he helped in bringing back her lover before christmas.i said good and i told him that if he can help me in bringing back my own lover,He laughed and said once i have contacted him that my problem will be solved.He said that my lover will be back to me within 24hours and do an unexpected thing for me. i said really, Truly when the 24hours was completed i got a text from someone saying am sorry then i decided to call the number i saw it was my lover Scott voice.i was so happy he was begging me on phone, That he is ready to do anything that will make me happy in life,So i told him to come over which he did,As he was coming he came with a brand new Car saying this is my christmas gift i was so happy and made me had access to his account to prove to me that he is not going to leave me for another lady,Am so happy today and am also thanking Alison for posting this early.Dr khakani you are truly a man of your word.Friends you can contact dr khakani on his private khakanibestsolutioncentre12@gmail .com or cell number +2348062216903 Name: laura davies

give it some time, everyone goes through bumps ...
And just for the record, pregant women are hot!

I am so sorry for how you are feeling right now!! Some men go into a sort of shock at the thought of becoming a father; and they tend to forget that you are the one carrying that baby. He sounds like he made you feel very special during the courtship, and now things are different. I too realized too late that my husband saw me more as property that became his once the papers were signed. I felt at times like guys must think we are supposed to be a virtually "always available" sex partner, and the rest of the partnership shouldn't be an issue anymore. They did what they had to before, and got us, and now they are finished working for it. I am glad you are with your sister, you should stay as close to your support system as possible. You should be as direct as possible with him without argueing. Men tend to think in "facts...as they see them", so if you lauch into an emotional tirade, he won't listen. Also, consider some counseling. A first marriage and first baby are major life changes, and he should be going through them with you, not outside of you. Make your needs known to him in a kind way. If he blows off counseling, and continues to treat you like this, you should consider moving on with your life. If you aren't a member of a church near you, please find one if you are a spiritual person. You need all the support you can get right now. God loves you and your baby, and he will use others to show you if you let him. God bless. Let me know how you are doing at karlinlabelle@cox.net. Okay?