I have five children, have been married to my husband for 18 years and been with him for 20 years. I am miserable, he overlooks me, opens doors for other women and slams them in my face. I dread going out anywhere with him, the thought of it makes me feel sick. He has always flirted with other woman and loves the attention, resulting in him constantly lying to me. I stay with him because of the children, he is a great dad, however he is a neglecteful husband. I have discussed this with friends and their husbands and situations are very similar. Is this what we should expect from men? Is the grass greener on the other side?