My Husband Is Not Good In BedI am 27years old lady, beautiful and married to a cute 31years old man. We were in courtship for few months before we got married 2 years ago. During the courtship, he was never really interested in bed, we did it once a while,he was always telling me that when we are married things will be better. On our wedding night, we almost did not have sex until I insisted. Since then we have been battling to have sex, he does not like kissing me, no compliments from him, no passion in bed. The few times we have sex, he just want to go in, com and sleep off, no passion of any kind,no sweet words. I only receive compliments from other people,but not my husband. I have sat him down times without number to talk about how I feel about our sex life, his always promising to change. The annoying part is that at times when he pretends to want sex, his ***** will not rise, he gets frustrated and leave me, this is usually not the case as at times his ***** will work well and he will be satisfied without me getting any where at all.
Outside the bedroom, his a nice person, we look perfect to the outside world, he takes care of me, assist with the chore at home.
We have sex like 3 times a month, we have no kids yet. what do I do. Should I remain in this marriage and may be cheat on him to satisfy my real sex hunger or should I just remain miserable and forget about ever having a real passionate relationship I dream of every night or should I just quit this marriage.