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I My Husband Ignores Me

He's Emotionally Checked Out

By: contraalto
Written on October 1st, 2012
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • Sonia779

    i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and suddenly, another woman came into the picture.. he started hating me and he was so abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so a friend told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster.so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn't believe in all those things.then he did the special spell casting for me. After 2 days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case you wanna contact this wonderful spell caster, his email address is ishvaratemple@yahoo. com

    Feb 17
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    • mvcmvc

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      Feb 17
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  • nancybetty001

    First of all i want to thank Alison for the post she made on how dr khakani helped her in bringing back her lover before christmas.At first when i saw the posting i was so happy and in the other hand so scared,That this might not be real, Then i decided to give it a try in which i contacted dr khakani and told him how my lover left me for another lady for the past 3years and i have been lonely without him,So i told him if he has helped anyone called Alison and he said yes, that was the lady he helped in bringing back her lover before christmas.i said good and i told him that if he can help me in bringing back my own lover,He laughed and said once i have contacted him that my problem will be solved.He said that my lover will be back to me within 24hours and do an unexpected thing for me. i said really, Truly when the 24hours was completed i got a text from someone saying am sorry then i decided to call the number i saw it was my lover Scott voice.i was so happy he was begging me on phone, That he is ready to do anything that will make me happy in life,So i told him to come over which he did,As he was coming he came with a brand new Car saying this is my christmas gift i was so happy and made me had access to his account to prove to me that he is not going to leave me for another lady,Am so happy today and am also thanking Alison for posting this early.Dr khakani you are truly a man of your word.Friends you can contact dr khakani on his private khakanibestsolutioncentre12@gmail .com or cell number +2348062216903.
    Name: nancy jones

    Jan 29
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    • mvcmvc

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  • kathryngal220

    I feel & know your pain.

    I have (thankfully) realized that there is one Man who can fill the void in our hearts...He is not like any earthly man (who lack sensitivity). I have found this Man to be my best help - He is Jesus Christ, the one who died for us all so we could be in relationship with Him if we choose so.

    Some things that I do that help me process the bitterness and resentment I sense towards my husband due to his negligence:
    1) Remind myself that Jesus Christ already loves me completely and much more than any human (including my husband) can
    2) Forgive my husband for being clueless in this area and causing so much pain/hurt to me
    3) Remember that the Lord Jesus is watching this marriage closely and is definitely not pleased when any husband neglects the wife. In fact, the Lord will ask the husbands to stand before Him and give an account of their actions/non-actions toward the wives...
    4) I consciously choose to speak out of my mouth "I am a forgiving person, I do not hold grudges. I release my husband to the Lord's hands of correction and discipline. I choose to forgive him, he does not understand the magnitude of the consequences of his negligence to me. My feelings of hurt and anger/dislike may not go away overnight or in an instant... but I am choosing to not dwell on my husband's insensitivities (yet again) and choosing to trust in God's provision of unconditional love for me. I drop all charges I have against my husband for what he says or doesn't say... for what he does or doesn't do. I drop all my rights to get vengeance. The Lord has promised in His word to avenge me. He will help me. I choose love, I embrace life. I am fruitful and help other people. I overcome evil with good. I will walk in forgiveness, extend mercy, and hold my peace when wronged. The Lord loves me and I receive His love."
    5) I fill my day with things I can do for other people... I bless others, including my husband.
    6) I choose to be a person of purpose who goes about doing good to others and trusting that God will bring goodness and mercy into my life as well.

    I shall remember you in my prayers.

    Love,
    (^_^)

    Oct 12, 2012
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    • gr8weez

      Thanks for this.... it just makes so much sense.... I know it in my heart, but sometimes my flesh gets in the way :-)

      Oct 23, 2012
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  • Hillary1160

    This sounds just like my husband

    Oct 1, 2012
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