All I want is SOME sort of affection once in awhile. A hug when he comes home, a pat on the back, a peck on the cheek...something. He virtually ignores me unless I've neglected something in the house that he thinks should have been done before he got home from work. These priorities always change and so I never know what he's going to find wrong. The good news is...he's a great dad to our three boys, and he does his share of housework. He once said, "I don't have anything left." (for me)...I've thought about leaving him, but the boys would be crushed and I couldn't leave them. I just always imagined a partner and friend in my marriage, not a roommate....