Married 14 Years.I have been Married 14 years to a man that was just diagnosed 4 years ago, when my daughter was diagnosed.
It sure explained alot of his behaviors. We were on the verge of Divorce when we found out our daughter had Aspergers.
We traced to my husband who was then diagnosed also.
He also has anger management issues related to his frustration through life of not being able to feel like he was understood.
I also have a bipolar daughter.
All three see a Therapist for several medications they are on to help with mood, anger, anxiety and depression.
I was on antidepressants for 8 years to help me live with my husband.
When we met I had 3 young children, he was so great with them.
We have two children together, one is my daughter with Aspergers.
I am so frustrated. We have read so much material on this.
Viewed videos. My husband wanted to get help so we could stay together.
I know he means well and loves us all so much.
He is so hard to live with.
I was looking for a group like this to help me with some ideas of how to deal with him.
How to communicate with him. And also for some support from spouses who are going through the same things.
Everyday is a battle. I am always wrong.
I love my husband, but I am starting to hate him at the same time.
I want to get the love back that I felt for him when we first met.
So any help is so much appreciated.
ronda1986 41-45, F 7 Responses 0 Jan 2, 2011