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My Son Asked Me To Spank Him

By: Lninwa
Written on February 2nd, 2013
By: Lninwa
Age: 41-45 , Female
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  • Kittylovesrainbows

    No disrespect ma'am but I think it's very very very wrong to even lay a hand on your kid... Especially because where I'm from its illegal to hit your kids.. And on the @$$ to... Sexual abuse by your parents..... I wouldn't feel safe, loved, had a good childhood, anything. I'd rather run away or kill myself

    5 days ago
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    • JamieW

      No aspect of the parent/child relationship is even remotely sexual. As a marital and family counsellor with over 30 years experience I can tell you that spanking, properly used, is one of the most effective disciplinary methods in the parenting toolbox. This mother is doing just fine.

      4 days ago
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    • 2doerver

      JamieW,
      I agree 100% with your comment.
      Properly used means according to my viewpoint is, that it must be given with love and not carry on till the point of abuse.

      3 days ago
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    • 2doerver

      Kitty, those laws where made by Humanists who does not have the interests of our children on their heart. They are only interested in bringing up children that do not have respect for the things and people who earned it, eg. the Bible, most teachers and parents, and the most imported of them all, the Lord Almighty.

      3 days ago
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    • spanker6969

      @Kittylovesrainbows, I'm right there with you. This behavior doesn't seem healthy. And to the family counselor, I don't accept you as an authority on the subject. You don't necessarily know the consequences on mental health down the line for every individual. Just because you have talked with families for 30 years doesn't mean you know something even psychologists don't.

      2 hours ago
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  • pixiebird13

    you awesome

    6 days ago
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  • Lolau2007

    My mother whom is a very strict woman has tore me up before even as a grown adult. Not that I asked her to. I received a speeding ticket in her car when I went home to visit about a year ago, I flew in and instead of renting a car she said I should just use hers. That same day i flew in on a four day visit I took her car and was going to the store and received a speeding ticket. I knew she was going to be upset and I knew I could have not told her and paid it with my credit card when I got back home. But I didn't want to lie and so I desides that I will tell her and that was that.... So I thought. I came in to the house and said mom I'm sorry but I got a ticket, I have no probblem paying it so don't worry I will take care if it. Well she was more worried about me not being safe while driving and asked what she should do to get her point across...... I said I was sorry and that I will pay much closer attention from now on. She informed me that she didn't feel conformable just letting this go, she was again very concerned with my unsafe act. So a few minutes later she finds me and we begin to discuss again what should occur to get her point across... That's when I said, not that I needed one, but I could very eisaly justify on why I should get a spanking. She stopped the conversation and said are you sure? Do you think that truthfully? I replied yes ma'am I kinda do. She said to me that she totally agree and for me to gointo her room and wait for me. I did as she asked and when she came in there she had a hairbrush and told me very sternly to remove my clothes and for me not to say anything. I reluctantly did as she asked and she told me, Michael bend over the bed and grab the pillow, place my face In it. So I did and she told me do not move or it will be much worse. She then asked if I was ready, and when I said yes ma'am, she began to spank my ***, and I thought I was going to die. I tried very hard not to move but its impossible not to, she spanked me until I was in full tears and sobbing. My back side was red and blistered she made me stand up and with no clothes on, tell her that I would not do this again... She later hugged me and said that she loved me and that she only did this so I will remember......... From that day on, I drive like a grampa in the slow lane.... Lolau2007@yahoo.com

    a week ago
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  • JamieW

    Spanking was basically the only punishment my parents used, and they used it pretty often. Even so, there were still times when I just felt I had gone too long without. Unfortunately I never felt I could ask either of my parents for a spanking when they didn't feel I deserved one, so I usually ended up being bad on purpose (usually just smart-mouthed) so I'd get the spanking I needed. I'm glad your son is comfortable asking you.

    May 16
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  • arpo7x1

    When I was a young man I always asked to be spanked instead of being grounded !

    May 16
    3 likes
  • SailorMan644

    Lininwa,
    Such a wonderful, understanding, and nurturing mom you are! The world needs more like you. :) I think this topic occurs more often than people would think. I too asked my mom once and she did. I find spanking to be a very stress relieving and cathartic experience. I equate it to a hard, deep tissue massage. I was very fortunate a while ago to have met and befreiended a wonderful woman who understands this need. After we got to know each other well, I asked her to be a step mom to me and she agreed. Though I had to move away and miss her, for a while she helped me overcome some vices and bad habits. It was nice to have someone to lovingly hold me accountable. It is such a warm and wondeful feeling afterwards.

    May 12
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    • 2doerver

      S/man644,
      I know exactly what you're referring to ~ very stress relieving!
      I love the words "deep tissue massage".

      May 13
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  • arpo7x1

    I asked my mom to spank me when I was older instead of grounding me

    May 7
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    • feddooo

      How old were you when you asked your mom to spank you? did she agree? In what position did you take your spanking?

      May 9
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  • feddooo

    When I was young I would get my *** spanked daily by my mom, not hard but enough to get a red butt. If mom forget or was busy I always would remind her. Most of the times I got spanked in the kitchen while she is preparing a meal, and I would have my lunch or dinner butt naked even if we have friends invited over.

    May 5
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  • JBRH

    I have also asked my mom to spank me. I was 17 years old then. I had found out, that there was an odd need inside me to be spanked or to submit in a way. Unfortunately, mom didn't buy the idea. It made her quite embarrassed because she hadn't encountered this kind of plea before. I can understand that she had just one possible meaning for the spanking and that was not such that your own child, nearly grown-up, is asking for it himself. We didn't return to the theme any more but the episode didn't harm our relationship, however. It took me 8 years more, until I made a contact with a pro and finally got the first spanking after my childhood.

    May 5
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  • Spnkbooty

    Not too many kids would ask there mom to spank them, but he obiviously needed to be spanked n u spanked him as a loving mom would great story ty :)

    May 4
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  • decav

    Love the story, and you did exactly the right thing. And giving him some extra until he has had a good cry, establishing who decides on the discipline and how many swats he gets is entirely your decision. You are a good Mother, the world needs more like you! I never ask my Mother for a spanking, but looking back, wishing I had, she spanked me some, but not nearly enough. I remember always feeling so good and forgiven after a trip over her knees.

    May 3
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    • Lninwa

      thank you, I have been told I am abuse my boys but I know otherwise. Old old were you when mom stopped spanking you?

      May 3
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    • decav

      Spanking your Son is NOT abuse, it is what he needs to grow up to be a proper respectful young man! I was 18 when Mom last spanked me. I was a freshman in college and screwing around getting poor grades, wasting her money. So She gave me the option,drop out and support myself, or get spanked until my grades became acceptable. Three trips OTK and my grades were acceptable ;(

      May 3
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    • Lninwa

      your mom was very wise to give you that option. good for you to to accept her punishment you obviously have a great respect for her.

      May 3
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    • decav

      Yes, I had great respect for Mom, a real disciplinary spanking given with love, is an act of love, and I had the utmost respect for Mom. I deserved every spanking She gave me, and am thankful for everyone, I should have gotten many more. She is not alive any more and I do really miss her!

      May 3
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    • 2doerver

      I like both your comments and agree with Lninwa and you.

      May 4
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    • searching61

      You are right. It is a soothing story which makes clear the attentive care of a mom. She is strict when she spanks him and maternal when she bathes him. She fulfills all needs.

      May 4
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    • searching61

      Well said decav.

      May 4
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    • flipflopboy

      Did your mom spank you in front of the baby sitter as well?

      May 6
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    • anticonformist

      @decav
      can you prove the improvement of your grades was not just a coincidence?

      a week ago
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    • decav

      If you don't believe me, I don't know how I can prove it, that happened 50 years ago, but I can tell you it sure got my attention, which caused me to pay more attention to my studies, and slowly they improved.

      a week ago
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  • pierrerene

    I never asked my mom to spank me, because she and my sister spanked me and my brother as often as possible anyway. But when Mom asked, after she realised that our behaviour had improved, if should should spank us less frequently, we told her we preferred a high frequency of spakings for us. So she and our sister kept on spanking us at any occasion.

    May 2
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  • mrdave68

    I think that was brave of your son to do but it speaks volumes about the trust and love that is in your relationship. I'm sure he did ultimately feel better for having done that and good for you in persevering to give him a full spanking. I'm sure it would have been easy to stop when he wanted but that would probably have been too soon for his real benefit.

    May 1
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    • zyxw112

      I agree with your first sentence, however in relation to your suggestion "...good for you in persevering to give him a full spanking. I'm sure it would have been easy to stop when he wanted but that would probably have been too soon for his real benefit." As for this proposition, I personally quite doubt this... What additional benefit, might he potentially have attained? Might you really believe that some additional, further-unnecessary discomfort might actually provide for any meaningful degree of additional benefit? If so, would you mind please explaining how, and why exactly?

      May 3
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    • Lninwa

      I'm not sure I understand what you are asking. I felt a full normal but not a bad spanking was what Braden needed to relieve him of his bad feelings.

      May 3
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    • mrdave68

      I agree with you that there is room to doubt that there was additional benefit but perhaps there was. Here is what I suggest. A child, that has been raised in a family that chooses to use spanking as punishment, has a certain sense - you might even say, expectation - as to what constitutes a spanking experience. That expectation is, I imagine, shaped by their particular family and broader culture with regard to spanking. So Braden asked his mother for a spanking, knowing full well what that experiences entails. Further his mother was clear, according to her own account, that if he did get his request that it would be consistent with what he has come to expect of spanking. She clarified that she would not go easy on him and gave him time to reconsider his request. When she did administer the spanking she gave him the experience that he was both expecting and which she had promised him. Most kids in the middle of a spanking will be inclined to think that that have been spanked sufficiently and be very ready for it to end and that is how Braden responded. I'm imagine that Lninwa wanted to stop the spanking at that point as well but knew that it would not be the kind of experience that Braden was, deep inside, expecting and that she had promised. I expect that at the moment, Braden would have been pleased had she stopped but I wonder if later he might have felt cheated in some way that might be difficult for him to articulate or understand. It is perhaps in that sense that there could have been benefit to him - by giving him the experience he felt he needed and was expecting even if in the heat of the moment he was having misgivings. My post was an attempt to commend Lninwa for continuing to give Braden what he expected and was promised despite his request for it to stop.

      May 3
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    • 2doerver

      Dave, excellent comment ~ I agree wholehearted with your viewpoint!

      May 3
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    • Lninwa

      MrDave thank you so much for taking the time to give the perfect explination of what Braden needed and will for some time as he is only 15. You were able to articulate my exact feelings. I will be referring to your post in the future. Again you have my deepest grattitude

      May 3
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    • mrdave68

      You are most welcome. I'm pleased you felt I represented your position well.

      May 4
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  • arpo7x1

    I too asked my mom to spank me instead of grounding me and she did bless her !

    Apr 29
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  • Lolau2007

    I have asked my mother for one before. Now she in a almost joking manner calls it a "tune up".

    Apr 29
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  • sawyeree

    i was spanked as a child myself by a girl 3 years older than me.because i did some bad thing at her house one evening when her mother whent to the store to get some sanwich goodies at the market in town.she took me to her room scolded me fierce an hand spanked me red as a beet i cryed the whole time she said to me you needed that buddy she later gave me a sweet kiss an a big hug she you behave yourself hun i love you i smiled an she smiled at me as i weeped a little more...lol

    Apr 25
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    • Lninwa

      did her mom or your parent ever know she spanked you?

      Apr 25
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  • superme101

    jeremy if its only little things or urspanked for no reson its considerd abuse and if it is still happening u should contact poliece IMMEIDEATLY!!!!!!!!!!

    Apr 22
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  • jvcs

    i was spanked a lot as a child and into my teens i was glad when it stopped but as the years went by i began to miss it and still to this day i have never understood my feelings on this

    Apr 19
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    • anticonformist

      neither do I. How could you miss it?

      a week ago
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  • CaligulaCaesar

    Yet you say you don't like spanking you kids but you decided to do it for no reason other than him asking? To make matters worse you really went hard on him?
    Yeah you like hurting him and I know it. You're abusive parents turned you into a weirdo sexual deviant who likes pain and now you have done the same thing to your kids. Some people just shouldn't be parents.

    Apr 15
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    • zyxw112

      I most definitely agree with your expressed concerns in relation to any undue infliction of pain considering that I, do not personally believe all that much in the undue or over-extensive perpetrating upon others of any personally-held, "philosophy of pain..." As for nakedness however, so long as such might occur within an entirely respectful (and also, respectable? [private]) context, why should this particular matter of consideration necessarily provoke the degree of objection which you seemingly have expressed? Now, for purposes of clarification I might personally feel similarly as you in this respect, at least in relation to particular situations as may not be fully characterized by an adequate degree of respect and applicable regard, afforded for the sake of the particular subject(s) at hand... I would also acknowledge, that perhaps a few too many existing(?,) possible instances of such may potentially be categorized correctly within this undesirable capacity, consisting of an insufficient degree of respect being afforded for the sake of the subjects. I personally, would argue that the cause of this may simply be due to the extent (or lack thereof,) of reasonableness and/or respect as may be possessed on the part of the initiating parties, (unfortunately?) not all of whom might necessarily really be, all that entirely worthy (individuals)... (I would agree, this surely, is most unfortunate?)

      Now, as for your objection to this particular subject-requested spanking proposition cited here (aside from the needless, unnecessarily-administered pain component in relation to which I would agree with you,) ...What, might you believe to possibly be wrong with simply giving in to (and thereby, subsequently satisfying?) such a direct request as might be made on the part of the receiving party? Could such a proposition, really be all that objectionable? Please explain... Do you not personally like being granted, that for which you have asked?

      May 3
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    • CaligulaCaesar

      I think this sick **** likes to hurt her kids.

      May 15
      2 likes
  • amandalee2013

    A son or a daughter asking for a fatherly or motherly spanking in very commonplace occurrence.

    Apr 13
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  • IndianaDude

    I'm always afraid to ask for one, maybe my mom will think its weird or something. I have not been spanked since I was little, but I feel it could help me stay out of trouble. Just the other day I got caught smoking by my dad, I feel like a spanking would help me kick this bad habit. What would you do if you caught your children smoking?

    Apr 9
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    • Lninwa

      I hope they never smoke and I'm pretty sure they will not but they would get a very long hard spanking for sure. What did your dad say or do when he caught you smoking? How old were you the last time you were spanked?

      Apr 10
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    • CaligulaCaesar

      You think you're gonna really spank an 18 old in a few years?
      *****,those kids are gonna have more energy and strength than you and they're gonna smoke,do drugs and you wont be able to do ****. You have created monsters because you beat the **** out of them and sexually abuse them by making them get naked.
      You're sick as hell.

      Apr 15
      1 like
    • 2doerver

      Not language for a gentleman!!!!
      You should be ashamed of yourself!

      Apr 15
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    • CaligulaCaesar

      This is not a nice subject so I use the language that is fitting. Language doesn't make this subject any better.

      Apr 15
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    • flipflopboy

      If your not a pro-spanking parent then get off are area and she not sexual ausing he kids. Youno nothing about hr parenting stle. So back off and if you don't have something nice o say. Like your parents told you as a kid. If you have nothing nice to say, then don't say it at all. You don't have to agree with her mthods but respect them.

      Apr 15
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    • CaligulaCaesar

      I dont ever have to respect child abuse. Got that" Spanking is never enough for these sickos! It's always something sexual. Why would anyone embarrass their child by making them be seen naked? It's cruel.
      This lady is a sicko and also,a *****.

      Apr 17
      1 like
    • decav

      You are totally wrong, I was spanked when I was 18 by my Mother, and I never, never even thought of resisting or touching her, I had way too much respect for her and her authority to ever consider doing anything but accept my punishment and be thankful for it. Yes it hurt, but I was never spanked when I did not deserve it, and when the hurt went away I was thankful that Mom loved me enough to discipline me when I did wrong. You are a very disrespectful person for suggesting such nonsense.

      May 3
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    • anticonformist

      @caligula

      Although you do have a point. A very good one. Watch your language. Swearing never solved a thing. Neither did hitting. People just have illusions that it did. On the other hand,, if he actually asked for the spanking. It means he really needed it. Not because someone else decided upon it. But because he decided upon it, and for this reason, I believe it will do him a world of good.

      a week ago
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    • Strictdad38

      Please, tell me how much experience do you have with children?

      4 days ago
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    • IndianaDude

      this is prob a fake

      3 days ago
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  • oldfarmboy2000

    You are a good mom! The first time I asked my mother to spank me I was 6 years old and she did it. When I was 7 I asked her to spank me harder. She thought she was spanking me hard enough but I persisted so she started spanking me with her hairbrush. By the time I was 11 I didn't need to ask her to spank me. She just did whenever she decided it was necessary which was quite often, in fact far more often than I would have asked for one. Most were deserved though. They slowed down a lot when I turned 16 but did not completely end until I was 18, graduated from high school and got a job.

    Apr 3
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  • briefsboy2

    interesting

    Apr 2
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    • briefsboy2

      I am glad you gave him what he needed

      Apr 2
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  • Jeremy301

    I've never asked for a spanking, i dont think i will. Im 14 years old and i get spanked bare all the time and its over stupid little things a lot. i hate it

    Apr 2
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    • BillyBoyBlue

      i to get spanked alot over stupid things an i'm exposed and sen by others

      Apr 26
      2 likes
  • surferme

    Good and interesting story.

    Apr 1
    1 like
  • Holingsworth

    Have you ever made any of your sons take their pants down to their ankles, and instead of going over your lap, have them bend over and grab their ankles for a paddling? I hope you have. I hae never found a mother that has, except my step own mom. I feel she really loved me. She became my step mom when I was less than a year old, so to me, she is my mom. I have a half brother (her and dad's son) sha busted both of our bottoms that way when we needed it. She was a no nonsense mom. One time in the car, my brother and I were horsing around in the back seat and scuffling and being rowdy. We got so out of control, she almost wrecked at one point due to distraction. She pulled the car over, came over the front seat, grabbed me by the hair on top of my head, grabbed Jim the same way with her other hand, and knocked our heads together. She told us to knock it off or she was also going to blister our bottoms. When we got home, she gave us both hugs,sat us down, and explained why she did that. We understood, and never did anything like that in the car again...lesson learned.

    Mar 30
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    • Lninwa

      I always have them over my knee.

      Apr 1
      3 likes
  • pierrerene

    Maybe, if your son asks you to spank him, you don´t spank him often enough.
    I never would have asked my mother to spank me, because I knew my next spanking was right around the corner anyway.

    Mar 30
    2 likes
  • flipflopboy

    I think you did a loving think by spanking your son. Did your son ask you to spank him alot when comes to summer time as well?

    Mar 23
    2 likes
    • CaligulaCaesar

      In what world is hurting someone and making them cry loving?
      What are you retarded?

      Apr 15
      0 likes
    • flipflopboy

      You just don't get it. And calling people names really hurting me alot. Please as parents it's our job to discipline our kids the way we see fit. If you have a problem with it, come do something about it. It's not your job to judge other people parenting styles. If you don't spank your kids, good for you. Now please respect our parenting styles or don't bother postting on here again.

      Apr 15
      1 like
    • CaligulaCaesar

      Come do something about it? I know the difference between right and wrong and beating a kid and then making him go naked (as is stated in other stories by this author) is just wrong. It's evil.
      And what do you mean come do something about it? What's your address,phone number and all of that?
      Just stop. You dont want me to "come do" anything.

      Apr 17
      1 like
    • zyxw112

      Reply, to 'CaligulaCaesar':

      I most definitely agree with your expressed concerns in relation to any undue infliction of pain considering that I, do not personally believe all that much in the undue or over-extensive perpetrating upon others of any personally-held, "philosophy of pain..." As for nakedness however, so long as such might occur within an entirely respectful (and also, respectable? [private]) context, why should this particular matter of consideration necessarily provoke the degree of objection which you seemingly have expressed? Now, for purposes of clarification I might personally feel similarly as you in this respect, at least in relation to particular situations as may not be fully characterized by an adequate degree of respect and applicable regard, afforded for the sake of the particular subject(s) at hand... I would also acknowledge, that perhaps a few too many existing(?,) possible instances of such may potentially be categorized correctly within this undesirable capacity, consisting of an insufficient degree of respect being afforded for the sake of the subjects. I personally, would argue that the cause of this may simply be due to the extent (or lack thereof,) of reasonableness and/or respect as may be possessed on the part of the initiating parties, (unfortunately?) not all of whom might necessarily really be, all that entirely worthy (individuals)... (I would agree, this surely, is most unfortunate?)

      Now, as for your objection to this particular subject-requested spanking proposition cited here (aside from the needless, unnecessarily-administered pain component in relation to which I would agree with you,) ...What, might you believe to possibly be wrong with simply giving in to (and thereby, subsequently satisfying?) such a direct request as might be made on the part of the receiving party? Could such a proposition, really be all that objectionable? Please explain... Do you not personally like being granted, that for which you have asked?

      May 3
      1 like
    • decav

      What a hateful person you are, you are the retarded one!

      May 3
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  • RedDelirium

    I wish you were my mom. I am a girl who moved out of my parents house two years ago and I was never spanked but I feel I need it. I asked my boyfriend to do it and right now it's working but there's that female/ maternal connection I'm missing.

    Mar 22
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    • Lninwa

      Yeah I can understand what you are feeling if you ever want to chat more let me know

      Mar 22
      1 like
    • RedDelirium

      Thanks I added you.

      Mar 22
      1 like
  • tripdelta3

    It is hard for me to imagine, when I was a kid, asking my mom for a spanking. She was a firm believer in sound hairbrush spankings for naughty boys and I hated it when she spanked me.

    So, as hard as it is for me to imagine asking her for a spanking back then, I know there are many people who now would not be able to imagine me asking other adults for a spanking with the hairbrush, just like mom did it, now that I'm an adult. But that's how it is. And I make no excuses. :-)

    Mar 19
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