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My Son Asked Me To Spank Him

A few days ago my 14 yr old son came to me and asked me for a spanking. I asked him why and he said even though he had not been naughty he just wanted me to spank him. I told him I would talk to his dad and would get back to him. I told him if I do spank him I will not go easy on him. He also understood he would have to stand in the corner afterward and would be put to bed at 7.
My husband told me that sometimes if teens have not been spanked in a while they will want to be spanked. I knew this was true because when I was a teen I asked my mom to spank me. I just liked it when she had control of me. For some reason I felt very safe when my mom was pulling down my pants and panties and placing me over her knee. She did not go easy on me when I requested a spanking and  usually I regretted asking to be spanked but I felt better after she spanked me.
This morning my son again asked me if I was going to spank him and I asked him if he still wanted a spanking and he said, "yes ma'am" He said he just thought he would feel better after a spanking. I told him we would talk about when I picked him up from his friends birthday party. I picked him up at about 3:30 and on the way home he told me about how fun the party was.
When we got home I told Braden to wait for me in the dinning room. This is where our boys are spanked so I'm sure he knew what was in store for him.
After about 15 minutes I went to the dinning room to see Braden sitting quietly his eyes were welling up with tears. I said I had decided to spank him and told him to get me the paddle. He brought me the paddle from where it hangs on the wall. I proceeded to remove his pants and underpants. I paced him over my knee and told him to spread his legs apart. I do this to deter him from tensing his buttocks which is not allowed during a spanking. I gave him 5 quick firm swats and he began crying. I waited a few seconds and then repeated 5 more swats. He said ok mom I think I've had enough. I asked Braden if he was in charge when his spanking was finished? He whispered, "no ma'am."  I gave him a total of 30 swats and needless to say he was bawling hard by the time I stopped. He stayed over my knee for a few more minutes and then I stood him up gave him a big hug and told him I loved him very much. He was hugging me very tight and then he asked if he could sit on my lap. I held him for about 10 minutes consoling him as he softly cried with his head on my chest. I told Braden it was time for him to go to the corner. My boys usually stay in the corner for 30 min but after 20 minutes I told him he could get dressed. After he was dressed I asked him if he felt better after his spanking. He said when I told him to go to the dinning room he was regretting asking to be spanked. Braden said as soon as his bottom stopped hurting he thinks he will be glad I spanked him. After he helped me do the dinner dishes I gave Braden a nice warm bath and put him to bed at 7. We talked for a while and he said he is very excited about the Super Bowl party we are hosting tomorrow.
Lninwa Lninwa 41-45, F 93 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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Wish my mom was more like you when I was 12 I set my bedroom on fire playing with wd40 and a match they never found out about it but when I was 16 I told my mom and asked to be punished and she said it was a long time ago and I was to old for a spanking I think she was wrong about that and I feel I still need that spank I have never been spanked but think it will do me some good

This is a great story! This is a true scenario, I asked for several spankings in my youth and into my twenties. My last big spanking was in my early twenties when I had smashed my car that Dad had given me. I asked him for a spanking, and just got naked in front of him and he strapped the tar out of my *** and upper thighs with his belt. I deserved it.

Lninwa - did your boy get an erection from the discipline you administered?

As effective as this is I must condemn any violence especially to children by parents

I know the feeling. I did the same thing at 18, and yes, mom spanked. I had done something while she was out of town that while my dad let me, it was not something she approved of and I knew it. I told her it would ease the guilt if she spanked so when we got home (we were in car on the way back going somewhere when I told her this) I went to my room and she came in with the paddle, asked me did I really feel like I deserved this spanking, which I responded by teasing mom that I guess she had really spanked a good conscience into me! She responded by laughing a little and told me to bend over my bed, then gave me 3 swats over my shorts, which caused me to cry a little, then she put down the paddle and gave me a hug, which she always did after a spanking, asked if I was OK, which I was, and then got the paddle and left the room

I was never spanked by mother as a child- however once at the age of about 17- I did ask her for a spanking- a bit of an odd storey- I posted it on this website a while- she did never did spank me in the end

I know the feeling and can totally relate. The spankings were a bonding experience for my mom and me both, and the cuddle time after made the entire spanking session worthwhile. Lovely story.

I've had daughter ask for spankings and I remember my asking mom for some too. Just something that a s loan king seems to settle down

How would you ask a parent to spank you? Cause I want to I just don't want her to think I'm weird or something

You could have let stay butt named until after dinner so he cool his butt.

I request spankings from time to time it's a good tension release

It's interesting how he asked for a spanking. I know from my own experience that I often felt better after Mom had spanked me in regards to the fact that the air was clean, no remaining guilt/fear hanging over my head from undiscovered or yet to be dealt with issues or transgressions!

That said, the embarrassment and soreness that came with a bare bottom spanking and cornertime always guaranteed that I never brought myself to ask for it lol!

well done

I find this extremely weird. I spank my children and they all hate being spanked. None of them would ever dare to ask to be spanked. My step daughter is on here as Lexikay99 and I'm sure if you asked her she would never want to be spanked

A lucky boy to have a mom who loves him that way.

good you set your boys emotions on the right track,
sometimes a spanking is the only way to fix pent up emotions and during the teen years they are at their worst

Thank you for the wonderful story. It is not only teens but adults that sometimes need to be taken in hand, their bottom bared, soundly spanked until they are kicking their legs and crying real tears. It is a relief to have someone else in complete control and to discipline them. I know because I am the fatherly disciplinarian to a couple of women who need a good spanking from time to time. After their spanking and discipline, I hug an console them and they sit in my lap and cry on my shoulder, but always thank me for taking care of them.

I also know how important it is, because from time to time, I need a "mommy" like you to do to me exactly what you did for your son, only many more than 30 with a paddle or hairbrush. It is very difficult to find an "aunt" or "mommy" and it often to too many months between my spankings.

I am a trim and very athletic 6 ft gentleman who manages a non-profit and of course keeps this interest very discreet, living and working in the Houston-Galveston area.

Did you enjoy spanking Branden?

I never bad to ask for a spanking but got enough throughout my childhood and teens. I was into spanking and spanked many a bottom in play and enjoyed every experience to them max!
I cannot understand the dinning room as a spanking unless it is more closed off from the rest of the house. A spanking is a private affair and should be done away from the rest of the family. Even in our games the spankings were away from the group. Even though it was within view of the rest of the group, it was only play and pretending to be in a separate room was part of the fun.
I prefered to play privately without playing out a scenerio in a game but just having the warm sensation of having someone over my knee for an extended period of time.
In private, I also had more freedom to bare bottoms than I had when playing in a group. This freedom was very limited in a group due to the fear of being tattled on or that the "naughty" might be embarrased to be bared in front of others.
Do you have a good story about spankings your daughter received by either you or your husband?

I remember feeling like that, although I never worked up the nerve to ask for a spanking. I often wish I had. Thanks for the story.

I am pleasantly surprised with your stories, my sister has a teen age son and lately has behaved very badly and despite all the consultations with psychologists and other things, their behavior continues to be bad, so that you narrates and I also read elsewhere, the spanking punishment, being in the corner and naked gives good results with problematic boys and could be a good solution.
My sister has never punished his son with blows, if it does at this age, 14, may be successful or this punishment must start at a younger age.

Apparently as i could read, you taught to other person with this punishment so his advice for his expertise will be welcome, thanks.

Ms Lninwa really appreciate you answer my question, thanks.

14 is a little old to start spanking but if nothing else is working she should try spanking.

Thanks, I appreciate your response, really the boy is 13 years old, I made a mistake when typing in the above query, I see that age could be a problem, but even she never hit my nephew Andres and as she is divorced and the father of the boys did not have any interest in raising them, I help she as I can, the problem is that the boy bothers her two sisters, one older by two years and one child in three years and also in the school is very fighter and usual punishments are no longer, so to read about the topic of spanking I thought it might be a solution, as I see that the problematic guys get more submissive, I see you had good results with your children, I consult if the effect is the same if done with underpants or be bare ***.

I feel all spankings should be bare bottom because you can see the bottom redden but not become bruised. I know some child are bruised when spanked but I don't agree and feel this is abuse when bruising during a spanking

it is nice to see the shades change from pink through to deep red

I agree I tell parents who ask about spanking bare bottom is the safest way to spank a child. Idk if you agree but I believe a child should not be spanked until close to 5

5 is a good age to start discipline, it should be firm and fair and always appropriate to what they have done wrong. I agree with your husband that very serious issues need to be addressed with the belt and hard

I agree our boys had the belt for the first time at 16. From 5-9 I spanked with my hand. At 10 I started using my paddle

I think the age for the belt is dictated by the action, things like theft should be dealt with severely irregardless of age and both boys and girls

Yes dad doesn't only spank with the
belt he uses his hand or paddle

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I think this request is probably a function of 2 independent factors: 1. Corporal punishment is relatively quick. You get it over with and are able to get back to a normal relationship almost immediately. It is effective. Properly administered it is sufficiently painful to incentivize good behavior. 2. Some find receipt of a spanking sexually stimulating. While the spanking is still painful, you are more inclined to take your punishment because there is this side benefit.
I was like that. I didn't want one, but it was better than loss of privileges and there was the climax that followed the ordeal.

Thank you for your answer, but what should be the proper punishment in relation to how hard should spanking, be till the boy cry of pain, his *** being too red, I've read somewhere that some end with his bottom with bruises and blisters, I think that would be much or maybe not, as there is no experience in this type of punishment, the level of pain i don't know.

Now that the sexual stimulus, this could not be a reason to perhaps find more punishment for the stimulation and maybe the punishment becomes a source of pleasure for the boy.

Wow! This reminds me of the relationship i have with my nephew as related in my story "Mentoring my Nephew" You did exactly as I would have done to meet his needs. Great Mom! Your welcome to check out my story about mentoring my nephew and how it all evolved. We, too, have an awesome relationship.

That is an amazing story to me because I never felt comfortable enough with my parents to ask for a spanking. Even though I thought about I many times! I think that means you have done an exceptional job as a parent.

anyway thank u mom

are realy strict mom? do u

Thanks for sharing! Yes at times Teens do need a spanking and I agree with you for giving him one when he asked for it ! He obviously had done something that He felt guilty about and needed that disciplining!

Did your son ask you for a spank?

thank u