I've been married for 22 years now. The first three were great. After that the abuse started. I almost left him. He ended the abuse but now there is no conversation or affection. It's like living with a border. He suffers from depression and anxiety. It affects the entire family but he dosn't see it. I have 4 children. I need strength to be married.
sunshineing sunshineing
41-45, F
3 Responses May 21, 2007

dont stay for the kids it only hurts them .leave for your sake you can get help finding a house and food .its not going to get any better

Leave. Find happiness. You DESERVE happiness. your kids will thank you some day.

You are incredibly strong to endure this. Is he seeking any help for his problems at all?