BE a Man

my wife keeps threatining to cheat on me if i dont do what she says.i now realize that thats how she's been getting me to go along.the fear of being cheated on was scary but she did it already so why should i worry now.f-it.i gotta start being a man and tell her go and have a million affairs but when you get home i'll still be doing my thing.women
SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO
26-30, M
7 Responses Jan 19, 2007

u dont do what she wantys cuz shes not your boss. be a man. if she cheats you or tries to do it beat her up ( oh how amazing, she deserves) and never act like a child that obeys his parents. have more dignity

u dont do what she wantys cuz shes not your boss. be a man. if she cheats you or tries to do it beat her up ( oh how amazing, she deserves) and never act like a child that obeys his parents. have more dignity

u dont do what she wantys cuz shes not your boss. be a man. if she cheats you or tries to do it beat her up ( oh how amazing, she deserves) and never act like a child that obeys his parents. have more dignity

update:divorced for 6 months now.my life great-hers-a disaster.revenge is sweet

What is wrong with that woman? How can your " WIFE" tell you she is going to cheat on you if you dont do what she says. That means she honestly doesn't really love you,. Get the hell out of that relationship!!! who the hell wants to live like that? It's obvious she wants out or is already in the midst of having an affair. Get out while you still can, because this can get very ugly. You aren't her slave you are her husband, and with that being said the B*itch should have some respect, and she doesnt have any for you. So let her go, because if its that easy for her to say she will cheat on you, guess what its that easy for her to cheat!!! <br />
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Good Luck!

That is one of the less healthy relationship patterns out there to be sure. Threatening anything in relationship weakens it considerably and emphasizes being on opposite sides. Hubby and I have always gone with the "we're on the same team; let's work together through this" attitude. No threats, no name calling, no lies.... it seems to have worked amazingly well for the last 15 years. Maybe your wife could benefit by taking on that kind of attitude. ;)

WTF!!! What the hell kind of **** is that? <br />
I don't mean to seem bitchy, but are you going to put up with that garbage from anyone? Your wife should be last person to be makeing your life a living hell. <br />
I am by no means dogging your wife, but is she trying to give you an anxiety problem? <br />
I know my ex pulled that with me and all i said was "go ahead but i'm not not one who has to live with being a cheater and God is watching everything you do". <br />
That was enough to shut his *** up for a while.<br />
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I'm sorry your going through this.