I'd Love A Man To Make Decisions For Me And Tell Me What To Do

In a world where feminism has become a necessity in order to be socially accepted, I often find myself struggling to balance all areas of my life - my job, income, family, love life. Having high living standards and working hard to meet those, I battle my bills while managing a clean and neat household and keeping my body in shape.

I face decisions every day and I have never liked them. Thinking just takes so much effort and balancing pros and cons while fearing consequences and possibly having to live with the outcome of a wrong decision involves much brain activity.

I wish I had a man in my life to take some of these decisions into his strong hands.

I might sound a bit lazy but I would just love not having to worry about where to go for dinner, or what to cook. Being told what to wear every once in a while, or when to go for a run, when to clean my bedroom, and when to have sex, and how, and where.

It would be so relaxing to be able to give my brain a rest and rely on someone else - even if it is just for a little while.
I will never turn into that person that doesn't shave her legs unless she is told so - but to have someone there to sometimes set priorities and help with my personal time management would be so relaxing.

Furthermore, it would feel like I would be doing something for my partner, which would give me great joy and motivation. I have cleaned my house so many times and no one ever appreciates it - actually doing it for someone would be much more fun while I was at it. I wouldnt just do it because it's dusty - i would do it for a higher purpose - to satisfy my partner, to make him proud.

I would feel more like a real woman because that's what women are supposed to do and I'm missing that aspect in my life. Making my own decisions and being a strong woman, makes me feel less feminine.

One day I hope there will be someone in my life to tell me what to do...
fantasiamoon fantasiamoon
26-30, F
2 Responses Jul 23, 2010

You've received some real crap replies, apart from the one from 'blehtolife' !! You can clean my house anytime, & do whatever I fancy for that moment when it comes to 'sex', but all this does is make me a traitor to good, honest, men! Just try being yourself, & a good man will want you, accept you &, if he has any good sense, will take on those responsibilities that concern you, then pamper you, take care of you, 'court' you, & eventually, when you are ready, make love to you (not 'just have sex'!).

I am a dominant man. My wife was a submissive banker(she died 12 years ago). I gave her all the money and told her to deal with it. As many of my bills are paid automatically as possible.<br />
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Much of what you need is a strong willed man who will give you the emotional support and direction. I do this when I train women. Setting up structure is one of the things many people do not do naturally.<br />
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Because I am a start-up specialist, I have learned to organize things, even though in my own life and home many things are not that way (too busy creating to clean that up). I keep the main part of my house picked up. I have a system for my laundry, kitchen and books. My desk always has things on it. My computer has piles of things all over the desktop because I am working on them and this is where I keep them. Once every few month it gets too cluttered and I put stuff away (never remember where it is, but fortunately I use Macs and it seems to have a good way of searching for content even when I forget the name!) Same with my desk. every month or so I take a few hours and see what needs to be out, decide NOTHING and get 98% of the crap off, but there are always a few homeless things.<br />
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So, all that said you sound charming. but let me add a few more things because my brain creates and sees and does not shut-up or off.<br />
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Feminism: The bullshit being passed off for feminism has zero to do with being feminine or supporting women being women. It is better titled Pseudo-man. You need a bigger **** and bigger balls than ALL the men just to get any respect.<br />
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I train women to be sexual, submissive and manipulative. They get more done, get more people to do things for them, have more stuff and a far easier life. "Oh I don't want to use people or manipulate them."<br />
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Right and Real Men don't use hammers. Hammers are for *******, just pound those nails with your fists.<br />
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Why do you think God gave you boobs and a ***** that can be used anytime? Why do my think men walk around thinking about ******* nearly every woman they see? (well the cute, slender small breasted ones for me). This is a tool. It is NO DIFFERENT than using a frying pan to cook food or a glass to hold a drink.<br />
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To NOT use a tool this powerful is an act of complete and absolute stupidity. Does this mean **** every man? No!! In fact it means usually to NOT do that but to flash, tease and occasionally when they have produced again and again to reward them beyond their wildest dreams. You will soon have men lined up around the block eager to help you with anything you want.<br />
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I like to cook. I do not mind cleaning if someone is keeping me company (I suspect you are the same.) As to what clothes to wear, no problem. Something I do not like I'll just say, "have you gained weight? Hmmm you look heavier in that." Sure fire way to make sure it never sees the light of day. Get it put in the Goodwill!<br />
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As to the when, where and how of sex, ah decisions decisions, well first kneel down and let me check you esophagus while I think about this.<br />
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Now if you are slightly masochistic, and older older dominant men, you need to add me to your friends list and write! I mean Right NOW, young lady. <br />
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