Change Of Life

I must be going through the change of life, over last 3,4 yrs. i"ve had mood shifts, my sex life going crazy, i feel like no one understands me. me & the wife don't comunicate that much about sex needs, i like different things, than she likes (not on same page). anyone else having this problem .
epsgt epsgt
61-65, M
1 Response Jan 6, 2013

Once communications start breaking down complications can set in real easy..... You might both be going through some physical and psychological changes....Maybe if you could just ease her into a good solid talk..No blaming or fighting..just calm discussion it might help or at least open a door to see if you both think some marriage counseling would work. Sometimes if folks can just get back to communicating they are the best counselors for each other....

thanks, you would think after 30 some yrs. of marrage we could communicate,lol.but i work a lot of over time,sometimes 7 days a wk, that probably does'nt help

A lot of folks seem to not be able to openly communicate and sometimes it gets worse as time goes by. Working, kids, it all has an impact. This is why folks have to make a real effort to at least once in a while stop everything and sit down and really focus on who they are and who their partner is cause folks do change over time and if you don't do this partners can change away from each other.....

this is soo very true, you wake up one day,& all you have is the marrage certificate saying you are married to each other, but that's all you have....your best friend, bed partner, the one u talk to...it's all gone...u feel like strangers to each other...

I am a firm believer that it is never too late to try and turn it around tho. It takes both to do it but one has to start the ball rolling..... I hope this can all change for you...

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