I married young (21) and had two babies. Up until that point I had been pretty upwardly mobile and independent. Achieving every goal I had set fourth; big or small. I was happy with life and myself. It didn't long take for the marriage long to go south. Approximately three or four monts. I became overwhelmed and depressed and have been that way every since. I hate my job and my life. The job market is terrible so I can't quit yet every day I'm on the verge of getting fired. Adding the fact that I carry the family on my insurance. Getting a divorce is complicated, costly, inconvenient, and above all permenant. My children love thier father and he is very good to them. I feel like I can't move forward. I need a new life but I have no control over my own. I'm just stuck being unhappy. This is crazy. I'm not even 25 and it feels like my life is over.