Written on September 3rd, 2011
First of all, I see alot of you woman posting on here that you desperately need a man, but before all that you write down how low your self esteem is, how bad your past was etc... In all honesty... like the title name says, how can you expect a man to love you when you cant even love yourself?? To me it sounds like most of yall are looking for a superman to come and make your life better instantly, Im sorry to tell you but thats not what relationships are all about. Its about BOTH of you making each other happy and BOTH working twards something better not just a one sided relationship where he will be your cure all to all the reasons you dont like yourself. All your doing by talking about yourself in such a way is attracting ******* losers who will read it and then know the weaknesses he can use against you to manipulate you. Love your self first, learn to make yourself happy, deal with the deep seeded issues you carry and be able to look at yourself and say yes im comfortable in my skin and with who I am.