I don't need a strong man beside me but I sure do want one. I am the mom of 4 kids. Ages 14,20,23,28. I have been married for 20 plus years. Only the youngest is with my husband. We are now separated. I left because in the total 20 years he has not had a stable job. I've always had to take care of myself and others. I really desire to be loved and to feel secure. I'm just soooo... Tired!!!