Help

im 18 in sixth form
so last night, at a party was really drunk! and me and this and this guy who goes sixth form had sex and i really regret it!
im scared he will tell everyone and scared this boy will find out
i dont want to havema repitation
help what shall i do the person keeps texting me and i really dont like him
yasminsolmaz yasminsolmaz
18-21
2 Responses May 21, 2012

We've all done things that we regret, but those mistakes don't define us. Tell him the truth, and if he does tell people, that should say more about him than it does about you. <br />
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Who cares what everyone else thinks anyway? As long as you have people (friends and family) who love you, all the other stuff is insignificant.

It is your choice to live with or with out this reputation. My suggestion is you just let things be for the time being until you can talk things out with "this guy." You need to be confident and strong and explain that what happened was a mistake and one you don't want to repeat. If he cant understand that then you need to get your closest and trusted friends on your side so that the truth can spread.