Confused

Me and my bestfriend are working on a relationship. Me and him have been working on it for a good amount of time. I lost my virginity too him and i fell inlove with him. I waited to believe and understand but i realized im inlove with him. The thing is, he doesnt know how too be in a relationsip, he's affraid of hurting me. I understand that and im not rushing into things because i want it too be worth it... He doesnt open up too me the way i do, im confused on whats going on. He spends time with me always, we always text and talk on the phone at night sometimes. Were always with eachother when we can. We go out too dinner, shopping and just being together. I just feel a way because of how things go. Its like im hurt by all of this. I try talking too him about it but its always the same answer.