I Need Guy Advice

So I met this guy about three months ago, and we immediately hit it off. We started hanging out, but he told me he didn't want a relationship. He is going away in a few weeks for a few months and he had just gotten out of a very serious relationship, but I don't know if that's the full reason for not wanting a relationship. Anyways, he would text me everyday, bring me dinner and we'd hang out a lot. We both have busy schedules and the texting and hanging out slowed down a lot. I'd see him out, and sometimes we'd hook up, but then other times he would mostly be with his friends and even chatting, but never hooking up with, other girls. I don't know if he sees other girls or not, but everytime I delete his number or tell myself to forget him, he'll text me saying he misses me or just saying hi. I know he's not using me for sex or hooking up, because we don't even have sex and mostly when he texts me it's just to see how everything is going, not to get together. I don't know if I am being stupid or just overthinking everything. Now it's about three months later, and we still text once in awhile, usually him texting me first. He's told me a bunch of times he wants to hang out again before he leaves. We finally made plans to hang out, but he cancelled last minute with a pretty legitimate excuse. He told me to let him know if I was free again next week. I had texted him the other night late but he never responded. I'm not sure whether I should text him to hang out again next week or not. I like him a lotttt, but he is leaving. I wanted to see him just once more to say goodbye before he leaves, and then I'm going to move on and meet someone else. Should I do this, or should I forget him now? Is he a jerk, or playing me? Does he even like me at all? Help!
An Ep User An EP User
1 Response Jan 13, 2013

I say, when a man likes you he grabs you. Meaning, he doesn't waste time because if he did then he could loose his #1 spot!

So, sounds like he is leaving, likes you , but doesn't want anything serious. So, don't worry about it. Live your life for you. If you want to hang out with him then do, If he doesn't text back, then forget it, then when he texts you again, I wouldn't respond. Then he will persist. But really it doesn't matter. Move forward. Consider him a person you like but no more.

I can tell you I have wasted my time with a guy like that for a year. And ultimately his ex girlfriend invited me to dinner- random! And i found out all kinds of dark and crazy things that then explained his hot cold behavior, and another guy who turned out to be married!! And- I consider myself to be a very intelligent savvy woman! .....sooooo, if he isn't coming forward leave it alone, don't expect a relationship. As my mother would say "don't cast your heart before swine" . You can like him for who he is, and remember what he is not capable of and leave it at that! If you want to talk to someone on the phone live about this then call chummychat dot com

Anyhow, Cheers to movin on- living life with love!