Scared To Tell My Past...

My current boyfriend whom i really love a lot is a bit possesive. maybe that is the reason i am scared to tell somethings about my past which i have never disclosed with anyone..i really love him and always find ways to impress him. but theres one guilt inside of hiding something...i really dont have the guts to confront him..its about my ex boyfriend.somethings that only we both know.i had to lie about it to my current boyfriend cuz i really dont wanna lose him..there is no way i can tell him the truth.he may never forgive me.i just wanna erase that part of my life...really scared of him coming to know about my past.felt really good to confess it here that i have lied him...hoping for the best...hope he sees my love for him and doesnt care about the mistake that i have made in the past.
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1 Response Jan 15, 2013

I'm not sure how long you've been in this relationship or the extent of what it is you feel guilty about, but I've always believed that honesty is the best policy and you should be upfront with someone right from the beginning. I've been in a poisonous relationship for nearly 6 years and always felt that my fiance had some skeletons in her own closet. Over the years I found out some things from her past from other people and found it difficult to deal with knowing that she'd always been hiding these secrets from me. It was very difficult for me to trust her and it came to the point where I question everything she has ever done or said to me.
I think you should be completely honest with him now and I can guarantee you will feel a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders. Trust is the foundation of a successful relationship and without that key building block, it will crumbel and fall.