Ex Wants My Land

After seven years of marriage, my husband divorced me coz I had a breakdown, he went back to his native  home for a few weeks on a so called business trip! and arrived by on xmass eve to inform me he had met some one else!  I did cry and begged him not to go that I would get well again!  well, he still left to be with someone else! I let him stay in the house over xmass coz I did not want him spending this special time alone, and beside the kids where only 2 and 4 years old, so they need to see daddy on xmas day!  Anyway to cut long story short, He decided to take them off me when they were 6 and eight years old! on the grounds i had bi-pola, which did not affect the up bring of my children! then he kept the children away from me for two years, then sent my daughter home with papers for me to sign stating he could have the house, which I did, then the next day he said she had to go back home that week, which was 3 weeks earlier that her flight! Now he is demanding I sign the land over to him, and am not sure what to do!  I did not take anything of him, he got the car the house and the kids .  I was the one who found the land and the dream to build a house on it {which we did} but before i had a chance to move into the house, I had a breakdown! I wonder now If he was giving me some kind of drug to make me lose the plot! anyway, THE HOUSE AND LAND was for the childrens future, thats why I never took any thing of him, coz its for the kids! but now he has met a new woman who has kids of her own, and now he wants the land!  Am worried he will sell the land and marry this other woman, who will divorce him and take him to the cleaners with my childrens future!   I do not want any money, just to know my children will not lose out! as it rightfully belongs to them!  Please help, I find it difficult to tell my family what is being demanded of me!

notyetdead notyetdead
31-35, F
Feb 23, 2009