Been dating a guy for about a month and have been on 3 dates so far ,
I just don't understand how does someone know if the dating will lead into a relationship?
mimilsu mimilsu
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

I agree with ilovethongs3. I'm 22 years old and in a long distance relationship with an older man and he lives 3 hours away. We've known each other for about a year and this Wednesday marks 1 month of "dating." We've had 1 physical date in all of this time and I have wondered a few times wether this will go anywhere. I look on the bright side by remembering the quote "absence makes the heart grow fonder." At the same time I'm keeping a clear head and look at the facts. We are quite a distance apart and he has his own life. Recently divorced, has 3 kids, owns a little farm; he's entirely too busy. And we don't talk as much as I'd like but I'm young so therefore very needy.
Ultimately, if this relationship doesn't work out, then so be it. Life goes on, and there are other possibilities :)

Very true , & I'm dating an older guy as well, they do seem to be more busy than others .
i hope things work out for you .

You are too young for worrying about that...enjoy your life and have fun...if it happens it happens if what

Very true thanks !