Hey everyone! so I've been dating this guy, and we get along super well. Every date we've been on has been perfect and never boring, but recently, he started getting distant. I brought it up and he said "I really really like you but I feel unsure about an 'us' and I have no idea why. I'm not sure if it's the idea of me and you or if it's just the idea of me with someone else in general, but because I feel so uneasy, I don't want to move too far forward. I just need time to figure it out." I told him I'd give him time and space and he said he didn't need space, but he's still acting really distant. I just wanted your opinion on this... Do you think he wants to end things? Or do
you think there's really something holding him back. I really like him, and I honestly see me and him being together for a really long time if it happens, and I have never felt that way about anybody that quickly. Should I try to talk to him about it? Any advice from anyone would be helpful. Thank you!
sarahbearrr51 sarahbearrr51
18-21, F
1 Response Aug 17, 2014

Don't over think it. See if he can elaborate on what he means.